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depression/anerexic/bulimic/cutting
SORRY ITS LONG i think im becoming anorexic because i never eat and well i eat but not alot.Yesterday i tryed to throwup on purpous but i couldt.Im scared for myself also iv been getting depressed latly and thinking about cutting i used to cut but i stoped because one of my ex friends told the school. I would never kill myself because i dont want to go to hell. After i cut myself i always feel so bad but i think i just feel that way because i dont want to get caught again.Boys and girls are always saying how hott i am but i dont think i am.I think im fat and ugly and i hate myself.It started around the time i started going out with my boyfriend.I cant brakeup with him because hes suacidel and i like him a real lot also he says i love you to me and i need to hear it.I need help! i need someone to talk to.DONT say my mom and dad because my mom has a deadly sickness and they have unuff stress and i dont realy trust any of my friends because i dont want them to tell like befor.Ohh ya i love to get hurt because i love the Sympathy and so i make when ever has happened worce. THANXS
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holy shit.. CHRISTI!?
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if your boyfriend is suicidal, you need to get him some help. also, you need to get some help for yourself. it sounds like you have a lot of stress in your life, you have a lot of things to worry about. talking to a real person will help you, i promise. being anorexic will not solve your problems, it will only increase them. there are very few severely anorexic people who live past 30..so think about that.
you have reason to live, and a reason to feel good. you have a purpose to your life, and even if you don't know what that is yet, do you really want to miss out on finding out what it is? your mom and dad need you to be strong now, but they would not want you going through this alone. i commend you for not wanting to burden them further, but they are the people who will love you forever, no matter what. they should know what you're going through. your problems are not stress to them, they will help you get through this. if you can't talk to your parents, call a teen hotline, google the numbers. they can put you in contact with anonymous people who can help you. you need someone to talk to...pronto! please get some help for yourself, and your boyfriend. for the sake of your friends, and your family. no one wants to lose you, i can guarantee it. eat something! start small, like some vegetables, then work up to maybe some soup. if you're concerned about your weight, follow a healthy diet.. you will lose weight faster if you eat healthy things more often. when you starve yourself, your body's metabolism slows down, storing fat, so you're not really losing anything for a long time. your metabolism gets a kick start by eating healthy snacks three times a day, and light meals. good luck, honey... please take care, and remember, life is worth living. that's why we're here.
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okk...i cant really help you with this on here. but if you want to talk my screen name is burnINAspotlight. or calmXOdisaster. i really think i can help you. i help a lot of people, and my uncle works with a college and everything like that. im going to be a freshman in september, hes seen what ive done for people and so have his peers in the work place, and they are already building up a scolarship for me in psycology. please, i would love to help you, send me an IM if you accept my offer.
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I've struggled with some of those things too. My AIM is kkkermiiit if you want to talk...that's all I can offer, I guess.
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OKay well ill be honost i dont think i can help you with th anerexic and belimic question... but i think i can help you with the other but i mean i nesd to know some more information about it befor i can help.... so PLEASE talk to me on AIM and IM me anytime... my screen name is IRideShortBus180 .. i seriously think i can help
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heyy. becoming anorexic will not solve your problems. it takes a long time to loose weight with that method. by the time you are as skinny as a rail you could die. it does seem like you have confidence issues..but what teen doesnt! you are COMPLETELY normal! =] trust me. everybody thinks that they are fat and ugly, but trust me, you aren't. everygirl looks in the mirror and only sees the negative points. go to the mirror and look at everything that you DO like. i had this same problem. what i did was avoid mirrors as much as possible and when i did need to use a mirror, i just kept repeating "i am beautiful." it helped majorly. i don't have anymore confidence issues. if your boyfriend started these confidence issues then i really would suggest breaking up with him. if he is suicidal then you could try to get him some help. there are orginizations that helped suicidal teens without even seeking their identity. if you want someone to talk to here are 2 numbers you can call: 800-828-8173 and 800-585-1172. these numbers help teens with their problems, you can just talk to them. also you can always talk to me, i will be happy to help =]]
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Don't get discouraged about your weight. If people tell you that they think you are beautiful you need to belive it. Don't kill yourself, you have so much to live for. You can talk to a guidance counselor if you feel comfortable, or try re-thinking about how you can make yourself feel/look better (if you want to). Hope I helped.
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you should be anorxic, its not qood at all. i know you dont want a lecture, find one of your really qood friends who you can trust &+ tell her about your cuttinq &+ eatinq- then she can find some help for you. make shure to talk to your boyfriend alot :] it`ll make you feel better.
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You have alot going on. It seems that when your under stress you just keep adding to it thinking it will help but you just drag yourself in deeper. The mose important thing is to stop the cutting. Its really unhealthy for your body, and if you keep it it could become rutine. As for the other problems it seems they all tie together as selfesteem problems. I agree with not talking to your parents. (they tend to make situations worse) But if you need to talk to someone I'd really love to help you. My SN is (ihearrtyou2) for aim. And email is (ihearrrtyou22@yahoo.com) please talk to me and don't be afraid. I've gone thru alot of the things i read up theyre. so i know how your feeling.
here for you. _kylie
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talk to god..
it sounds cheezy but i guarntee things will get better !! just tell god what your going through and how you need help but first ask him for your forgiveness. And iif you do'nt really no hiim just tryy! && your damaging your body by cutting yourself and just be yourself at school and try to let this pass you.. try to meet new people and hang out with them - get a new vibe of how it feels to hang out with other people and the best reason of why a friennd is important iis to tell people that but iif you want some1 to talk to im me at : yay its stremme or email me at yayitsstremme@aim.com!! i'm here anytime so just im me and i'll def. try to help!!
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i dont think its right for you to hurt yourself on purpose. if people think your hot, then you must believe so. im saying you have to walk around thinking your all that. you might just be insecur about your self...I cant say i have cut my self, or tried to starve my self b/c i havent...but i can say i have been insecur about my self like you. i think im ugly and fat somtimes, but i guess i just try to help my self in heathy ways...like going on a diet...a heathy one, and exersizing regularly...just be safe
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Whatever you do dont try to hurt yourself. All the people writing advice to you care about you even if we dont know you, You remind us of ourselves in times of our life. I have felt the same way I even use to cut but stopped cuz i realized I am better than that and people do care alot about me. You are apparently beautiful people tell you it all the time. You have to believe it your not fat or ugly. I know you love your boyfriend but if he is suicidal thats not healthy for you to be around. Do not hate yourself love yourself for who you are. Eat Eat Eat sweetie its healthy. Its not healthy to not eat you could die of starvation and thats no way to die. One of my friends makes her self throw up and she been to rehab so many times and it hurts us to see what is happening to her. so please dont hurt yourself. I know you are scared for your boyfriend just tell him "I love you alot but as a friend I hope you understand dont hurt yourself becuz of one girl" You can talk to me, I will help you. My screenname is craziirockerchic also my email is craziirockerchic@aim.com. If you need anything you can call me I will give you my number if you want. I am sorry about your mom. I know what its like to love getting hurt just so people are like oh poor baby but your better than that, I care about you, DONT HURT YOURSELF. Throw out all the razors.
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you have a lot going on maybe you shoulf ask you parents to see a physiatrist [ i know i suck at spelling ] or if you have any brothers or sisters you can talk to them.. and if none of that works you can talk to me because ive been through most of that i went to a mental hospital for three weeks the whole school knew that i did i cant throw up
&& i get way to hungry so just come talk to me if you have a screen name IM me at risktakerx3 on AIM ♥
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It sounds like you have self esteem issues, well you have a lot of issues going on in your life right now. I highly suggest you get help, not over the internet, not from just friends or family, but from a counsular, you may not like thee sound of that, but I go to one, and I dont have issues that serious, but it helps a lot, to be able to talk about things to someone who cant judge you. You know? And if you cant afford a counsular, you can always contact me on AIM or MSN - My aim is KaylehMae and my msn is on my advice column page. Or yahooo, or by email, just drop a line in my inboxif you have any other questions. :]
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