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f/17
so liked this guy.
he used me as a rebound girl
went back to his ex
is now dumping his currnet g/f (his ex)
and tells me that using me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he wants to hang out with me again to hopefully lead to a relationship,
what should i do?
go back to him because i just got over him and now he tells me hes sorry.
ahhhh (link)
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no don't.. and then when you do'nt acccpet him he will want you more and start to relize you for you and not his rebound giirl.. this guy did it to my best friend for like 2 yearss and then she just stoppedd caring and he then liked her for herr and not just to make the othe rgirl jelous
so just do'nt take him back no matter how much you want to!!
belive me
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alright, im gonna attempt to keep this short and simple.
ive liked this kid for about 2 years. i still like him. well. now we never talk. the past 2 summers though, i talked to him all the time [through the school years too] well im going into 9th grade [im 14] and yeah now we NEVER talk. i really really wanna start talking to him again though. i'm not popular, i guess you can say he is, although i hate stereotyping people like that and stuff. i have like no guy friends, although he has a lot of friends that are girls. you see, he used to like me. i started talking to him the summer before 7th grade. he told me he liked me.. blahblahblah. 7th grade started & he asked me out. i said no. why? i'm still not sure and i regret it to this day. we continued to talk after that. i guess it started towards the very end of 7th grade & the summer before 8th that he started to seem less interested in me and we would talk less. oh yeah, we only talked online. occassionally in school, but not every day. ok. i'm really shy. around him, i like got so nervous that i could hardly talk. it sucks because i'm already shy as it is, but around him i was like speechless. i know that after a while, that could change though. yeah so since he seemed less interested & our convos were mainly pointless, one day i just stopped talking to him. i haven't talked to him since september or october [online]. long time right? almost a year. like once or twice, maybe 3 times in school we talked, but it was only if he like asked me for a pencil or something. also a few months ago my friend imed him while at my house. and my brother was talking to him for some reason? [he got on his buddylist somehow] yeah anyway. i want to talk to him again. even if we don't go out, i want to atleast be his friend. because it sucks just liking him, thinking about him all the time and knowing that he's out there with other girls. i mean we have this past. and i can't get it out of my mind. i REALLY REALLY like him. i can't just keep doing this. how can i talk to him again, without it being really awkward? somehow i'm gonna do it. i'm not gonna keep holding back. i'll start off by iming him, and hopefully things will kick off from there. i don't want him to forget about our past. how can i do this? thank you so much, i really appreciate it. sorry it was so long, i tried to keep it simple! :] (link)
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ahh same thing happend to me with this one guy.. like we went out for our first time in decemberr and it went on till like january and then he just like stopped being interested in me and we tottaly just stopped altogether then but then i got sick of not talking so the second he signed on i made sure he wasn't with anyonee so i could tell him exzaclty how i felt and personaly i think you should say what you asked for advice on for him to really see how you feel.. and for some reason i wish i was you so i could pull a good speech off to give to some1 :D
good luck!!
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i know im not lik FAT, but im fatter than some people, and i keep eating and eating but im working at a camp where i waslk lik all day bt i dont seem to be losing weight, and my thighs are fat majorr turn off..any ideas> (link)
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eat smaller portions and i'm not telling you to go aneroxic but its the fastest way all you need to do is eat 5 smaller meals a day then 3 big ones and no snacking!! it will boast your metabolism which makes you eat and not gain weightt so yah - -
and try eating a spoonful of peanut butter before you go to bed :D it works!!
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ok, my like best friend, has told me weird things ever since we were in like 5th or 6th grade. Like about God. & she told me yesterday, that god told her to like walk through a closet & she would go to heaven. & she thought she saw a white sparkly light. & then she thought yesterday, late at night, she saw a red lightt. & like she thought shes seen like jesus before & stuff.. so my question is, is she like pyscho? or is she really seeing this stuff? like, it was just weird. & like her mom, takes sleeping pills to fall asleep, her dad is like weird.. he takes pills for everything. he tells her that shes fat, when she probaly only weighs like 90 pounds & shes 13. & like he just puts alot of pressure on his kids..
do you think that has anything to do with it? like she always gets so worked up. & i dont really know what to say to her. (link)
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its her conceious omgosh i went through the same thing!! like i would think if i didn't go pick up that piece of trash a mile back from walking my mom would die and liike all this stuff and tell her to just stopp listening to iit or doing whatt her conceious is telling her and it will go away- mine went on for about 3 months off and on but then i just stopped doing what my concious told me all together adn it worked!!
hope i hlpedd
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ok. there is this guy that i have liek a HUGE crush on. lets just say his name is Bob. my best friend met him at this summer camp for music and they became friends. there like brother and sister kid of friends. but whenever i talk about bob or like i see him or if she sees me stare into a blank space (she knows what im thinking about) like she will burst out laughing. since they are like brother and sister kind of friend people she just cant seem to think anyone would like him. but i t gets really annoying because i mean she wont be there for me. she wont help me get to know him better and all she does is laugh. i have told her this that its annoying but she wont stop. what else can i do? (link)
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that happend to me and in the end i found out my friend was jelous. but try to act like it dosn't bother you and iif it does then talk to bob about iit and tell him you like him!! b/c if he nos and she starts to laugh he will too end up getting irritated about iit and in the end thingss will get better!!
hopefully i helped
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So I take a shower everyday. haha. I thought I would start with that. But every day *like 12 hours after I shave-- less than 1 day* my legs are prickely *is that even a word?!* again. I hate it. Because I usually shower @ like 5ish, after camp and going to my towns pool.
I dont use shave gel or anything... just soap. Does using gel or those kind of products help get a longer feel?
And I know that hair grows faster when you shave more, but I have been shaving for a couple of years. *since i was like 12ish* I never had this problem before in the summer *I only shave my legs in the summer.*
So is there anything I can do?
Thanks! (link)
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i had that same problem when i first started shaving but then after i shaved for a whilee it started getting prickly the 3rd day!! so i think the first problem is that you use soap and not shaving cream.. 2nd off start shaving like once a week in the winter since you do'nt shave in the winter period. b/c one your legs get use to iit then the hair will stay down a lil longer each tiime. && if you later find out that dosn't work - try nair? or veet?
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im 13/f, how can i make some extra money for back to school shopping besides babysitting? (link)
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hmm ask your parents iif you can do any choress for them or start a like dog walking serive lol or even go to hyvee and say your 14 and they will give you a job- well they did for my friend -
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SORRY ITS LONG i think im becoming anorexic because i never eat and well i eat but not alot.Yesterday i tryed to throwup on purpous but i couldt.Im scared for myself also iv been getting depressed latly and thinking about cutting i used to cut but i stoped because one of my ex friends told the school. I would never kill myself because i dont want to go to hell. After i cut myself i always feel so bad but i think i just feel that way because i dont want to get caught again.Boys and girls are always saying how hott i am but i dont think i am.I think im fat and ugly and i hate myself.It started around the time i started going out with my boyfriend.I cant brakeup with him because hes suacidel and i like him a real lot also he says i love you to me and i need to hear it.I need help! i need someone to talk to.DONT say my mom and dad because my mom has a deadly sickness and they have unuff stress and i dont realy trust any of my friends because i dont want them to tell like befor.Ohh ya i love to get hurt because i love the Sympathy and so i make when ever has happened worce. THANXS (link)
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talk to god..
it sounds cheezy but i guarntee things will get better !! just tell god what your going through and how you need help but first ask him for your forgiveness. And iif you do'nt really no hiim just tryy! && your damaging your body by cutting yourself and just be yourself at school and try to let this pass you.. try to meet new people and hang out with them - get a new vibe of how it feels to hang out with other people and the best reason of why a friennd is important iis to tell people that but iif you want some1 to talk to im me at : yay its stremme or email me at yayitsstremme@aim.com!! i'm here anytime so just im me and i'll def. try to help!!
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Okay. I was at my boyfriends house the other day and his brother's friends sister came over, and she was all over him in the pool. I asked him why he didn't stop her and he said because we were playing a game. So now hes ignoring her but she keeps trying to get with my boyfriend. What should I do? I really need help!!! ;)(;
Mac (link)
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mm well if you were mee.. beat the crap out of her :D shes doing it on purpose so you get sick of itt and hoepfully dumps him ( in her point of view) so tell her your sick of it :D
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hi i was wondering if anyone knows how to do anything like these pictures:
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc977.png
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc9e1.png
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc9k1.png
anyhelp would be verry appreciated (link)
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ahh yes i can hlep sepaking i'm like a computer freak.org but for the first one go into paint and like open the first pic you want and paste.. then cop off the rest you don't and then like add anyother one that you wantt and put it riight beside itt but chop off the rest off that pic you do'nt want and do it the sameee for the next tiime and to make it look cool go into paint and likeeee draw hears on it and stuff then just save as - whatever you want it saved as and then open it to tinypic.com get the url and there your done !!
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im 13/f
--im really self contious and i keep on askin my friends wat they think and stuff like that
--then when i do it alot they think im annoyin and dont like me anymore but they dont tell me
--and sumtimes i feel that my friends look like they're so put together and im the one thats stressing over wat i look like
--can sum1 help me! tell me how i can stop annoyin my friends and stop bein jealous all the time and how do i get my friends to like me again (link)
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omgosh!! i have the same problem.. well had lol and first off ask people you may not feel very close with and ask them there personal opinon about you and iif they say something bad - work on it - and i was really jelous of all my friends .. definitly on how skinny my friends are but then again - god made you the way you are and so why be jelous about some1 when god made you specail for a reason!? your beuatiful and i hope someday you will see that -
really hope i helped!!
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i have a question : this might seem wierd but can a 12 year old boy have six pack abs? thank for you help. (link)
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def. but its not common i can tell you that
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Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?
Thank yoU! (link)
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start being really niice and iif one of your friends want to do something you really arn't in the mood for , do it anyways to show them that you care and do it with a smile on your face.. try doing any good deeds and start meeting new people and maybe they can hlep you with a thing or to
hope i helped
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Where can you buy skinny jeans? (link)
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pac sun and abercrombie!! for some reason at abercrombie its the "new thing now" tryy going to the websiite and it will show yah
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is it true if you have a spoon of peanut butter before you sleep it will help u lost weight? (link)
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hmm idk but i'm trying it tonight even though i HATE peanut butter :D
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I'm babysitting this demand child. How can i get her to shut up?! Omg. shes so annoying. please help
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ignore her and tell her that iif she dosn't stop you will call her parents and tell them that she isn't listening and you've tried everything and if she dosn't stop after that lock her in a room :D
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i am 14 but monday is my birthday see well i really really like this guy but the problem is he is going out with my sister but me and him liked eachother before and he has asked me out before but i said no because i wanted to get to know him better but i regret saying no now because now i think he has fallen for my sister and my sister is like a brake up person i mean she will be with a guy for a while and then when she meets someone better she will brake up with him but the problem is if my sister and this guy have sex (which she is already talking about) then i don't think i would want to go out with him after that and my sister always trys to make me look bad infront of everyone she even read my diary to him and his friends i was so mad and well she didn't care so i guess my question is how do i get this guy to like me again and totally have no feelings for my sister at all i mean he liked me first and they only got together cause i wasn't around please tell what i can do to get him basically get him to forget about my sister and see what i feel for him (link)
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fiirst off if you both have a screename before you say anything tell him to just listen.. then tell him your feelings and about how much you regret nott going out with him but also tell him why you didn't .. then go into how your the one for him and not your sister and how you have really strong feelings for him and you really want to get to no him better
hope that helped :D
- juliia_x3
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so i've been going out w/ this guy for a couple weeks. i love being w/ him.. we always have so much fun. we talk on the phone a lot but it's usually about what we did that day or how much we like each other. i want to get to know him better w/o being like.. "whats your fave. food, etc.". how should i do this? i come from a past relationship where i knew the guy better than anyone so this is whati want. (link)
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well maybe you should start asking him about his past relationships and what he looks for in a girl and what bothers hiim the most and talk to him about his childhood and ect. he miight even ask you the same questions and sooner or later he will no you better then you no yourself!!
hope i helped
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