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im stressin
im 13/f
--im really self contious and i keep on askin my friends wat they think and stuff like that
--then when i do it alot they think im annoyin and dont like me anymore but they dont tell me
--and sumtimes i feel that my friends look like they're so put together and im the one thats stressing over wat i look like
--can sum1 help me! tell me how i can stop annoyin my friends and stop bein jealous all the time and how do i get my friends to like me again
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omgosh!! i have the same problem.. well had lol and first off ask people you may not feel very close with and ask them there personal opinon about you and iif they say something bad - work on it - and i was really jelous of all my friends .. definitly on how skinny my friends are but then again - god made you the way you are and so why be jelous about some1 when god made you specail for a reason!? your beuatiful and i hope someday you will see that -
really hope i helped!!
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I am 13 as well and sometimes I am contious or however you spell that...but the truth is don't let your size and weight ruin your personality.I have a friend who is really fat but she is a good friend and only certain people can see that because they look skin deep...but please whatever you do do not go on those crazy crash iets at all those are scary and you could end up anorexic
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ok im 13 and im alittle self contious about somethings but i like myself alot not to brag i think you shouldnt go to your friends i think that you should find something you like about yourself and just brag about that to your friends i no it seems weird but they prob brag so you look at your self and go oh i dont have that or if they go oh look at my abs there so .. perfect and you look at yourself and think your arent (just saying maybe thats not the problem with your abs ) i think that you should try to start new trends and dont bring things like that up just try to have a funner time with out problems it makes life easier hope i helped
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hey, i'm also a 13 year old girl. yeah, i'm pretty self concious of course, so i always used to go to my friends to ask for their opinions, i could tell that they were getting annoyed so i stopped.
it sounds to me like you're fishing for compliments so you can boost your self esteem. Tons of teenagers do this when they feel insecure about themselves, it completely normal, but after while you'll find that your self esteem doesn't increase, it just stays the same, therefore you should try to stop asking for your friends opinions. Their opinions won't do anything, especially if they give their opinions when they are annoyed, because then they're just like, whatever i've had enough of this. Try to believe in yourself. Straiten your hair, put on some make up or whatever, then go look in the mirror. It's okay to say to yourself "hey i look pretty good today" it doesn't mean your conceited, your just building your confidence one step at a time, just don't brag about it to people, and don't become wayyyyy too confident, because that will annoy people.
just start a conversation with your friends, don't mention anything about how you look or whether you look good, just have a normal conversation and maybe even ask if you guys can hang out sometime =]
as for being jealous, its normal, but you've got to learn to control it. Try not to let people see how jealous you are because they usually don't like that. Eventually you will have a sense of who you are and you jealousy will go away.
your friends just probably have a better sense of who they are which makes them more sure of themselves. don't worry you'll be more comfortable with yourself as you go through your teenage years.
hope i helped =]
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Hi,
Tell your friends that you don't mean to annoy them and that you are really sorry for bugging them about how you look. They probably do the same to other people, so I don't see why they would get mad. Every single person whos ever wal;ked on this earth is somewhat self contious about the way they look, so its totally something every one can relate to. Your friends will understand that you care about your appearence and you don't mean to get them annoyed. =]
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1)All 13 year-old girls are self conscious, you're not special.
2)If you really think they don't like you cause of it, don't ask them questions like that anymore. But there's a good chance you're overanalzying their reactions. Women tend to do that.
3)So? Why do you want to hang around a bunch of conceited bitches anyway?
4)Dude, I totally used to be in the same situation. Fuck them! Don't fucking change for anybody. I learned that lesson the hard way.
Find ugly friends.
Stop asking them about your looks, they're your "friends", they're not going to give you a straight up answer anyways.
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