Okay, I liked this guy for a long time, and while I was on vacation he tried to get a hold of me. I didn't know his number, so i e-mailed him and he said he wanted to hang out. He also gave me his number, and I gave him mine. I called him a few days later and left a message. One of his friends told me that he had been gone for a few weeks, so i waited for him to call when he got back. He never did, and i couldn't figure out what was wrong, but i didn't want to seem to needy so i still waited for him to call. It had been 3 weeks and nothing, so i talked to him on the internet and he seemed really shady and irritated. Not his usual self. What did I do wrong?
Female/16 years old
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DefinedEyes answered Saturday July 22 2006, 6:58 pm: You didnt do anything wrong,
he probably lost interest. As sucky as that sounds you know? Since he hasnt called you back, well like the person said below, I guess he changed his mind. Dont try to dwell on it, thinking what you did wrong, because thats just torture for yourself, you wont figure anything out since you didnt do anything at all. Its his fault, in not being responsible and calling you back. I guess just dont talk to him, and if he doesnt seem to care, then from there I think you can make up what you wanna do.
DrJuanDekon answered Saturday July 22 2006, 4:22 pm: If life has taught me anything, it is to follow your gut instinct. If he doesnt want to call you, then obviously he has his mind on things other than you. [ DrJuanDekon's advice column | Ask DrJuanDekon A Question ]
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