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Q: im 13/f
--im really self contious and i keep on askin my friends wat they think and stuff like that
--then when i do it alot they think im annoyin and dont like me anymore but they dont tell me
--and sumtimes i feel that my friends look like they're so put together and im the one thats stressing over wat i look like
--can sum1 help me! tell me how i can stop annoyin my friends and stop bein jealous all the time and how do i get my friends to like me again
ok im 13 and im alittle self contious about somethings but i like myself alot not to brag i think you shouldnt go to your friends i think that you should find something you like about yourself and just brag about that to your friends i no it seems weird but they prob brag so you look at your self and go oh i dont have that or if they go oh look at my abs there so .. perfect and you look at yourself and think your arent (just saying maybe thats not the problem with your abs ) i think that you should try to start new trends and dont bring things like that up just try to have a funner time with out problems it makes life easier hope i helped

Q: I've been told in the past that I have a whiny voice by many (even my ex boyfriend guRR). I've also been compared to Karen on Will&Grace. Now I know my voice is my voice but still, is there anything I can do about it?
just try not to whine on surten things or if you dont get what you want just talk normal i know its hard bc i have been called whinyy before so just try to be calm relax and maybe you wont be so whiny hope i helped

Q: What can you do when you have a boss that gives everyone else fun and simple tasks, but gives you the dirty work that no one else wants, PLUS doesnt appreciate your hard work?
I work in retail at a superstore in the clothing department. Because it's january, all of our hours have been cut, Well anyways my boss told me today that she wanted me take down everything from the shelves and windex the shelves, plus our display tables. I had to take off all the nicely folded clothing and then spray our tables, wipe them, then put all the clothes back on. I worked my ass off, and all the other girls working got to do fun jobs, like setting up displays and customer service. After my shift was over (and covered in dirt) I said goodbye to my boss and another girl. The other girl said bye, but my boss never said anything or even acknowledged all my hard work.
Should I be upset? Because I almost felt like quitting after today.
alright
i have a little bit off more information for you and you kno i have a little bit of the same and i hope you like it i like some of the things the columnist wrote and i disagree to so here is my advice jobs can be tough and they are normally paid good the tough ones so you need to thing your boss may be treating you this way becuase she knos your the only one who will get the work done and be responcable for it unlike someof the other workers you kno this may be a reason but your boss may be cranky going through something tough thats why she isnt happy or not socializing with you ... you should tALK to her ask her whats really on her mind and maybe you too can have a bond is nothing changes maybe u can find a nother job who appreciates you but i dont think you should threaten her like the first columnist said by saying if you dont treat me with respect im quitting because the shell fire you for your dis respect and that will go on your file so just be like this is just not the job for me and tell her why and maybe there can be adjustments but thats all i have to say
hope i helped and ratee me

Q: well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much

p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]
well
you can go with a friend to the table like your just going over there to talk with the guys like all girls doo so he recognizes you then just start talking to him and then be like we deff.. need to hanggout
well hope i helped

Q: ok i am doing my myspace all over where do i put a layout in what section and what are some websites with good myspace layouts.
you put it in the about me column
and here are some good websites
im make my own thoo
heres my myspace http://www.myspace.com/thatshotox3
bbut umm here are some pages
www.createblog.com
www.myspace.com/chasebadkids
^thats a myspace generator
and
www.mygen.com

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MaryMac69
i am me my name is mary call me whatever mar mary mac whatever i dont care lol i love answering questions my friends say i give great advice so dont be scared to ask me. i have friends who have issues and not making fun of them so thats why i think im such a good listener well im not new at this so if you have questions ask please ..

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