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how do i get him back?
well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much
p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]
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Well you should go up to him or get him alone and talk this out with him because just incase something goes wrong you don't want a big crowd to see your disappointment.This advice is short but yet its helped me.
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Well your going to have to just kick your nervousness away and call him. Just slowly talk to him gradually. Tell him your missing him and im sure he'll understand and im sure he feels the same. If yous were the close then theres no way hes just forgot about you!
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well since you already know him then it should be easy walk over and and talk to him hows your day stuff like that since you know him so well you should know what he likes so talk about. write a note to him expressing how you feel tell him some of the things you wrote about what made you like him why you like him. get is number if you dont already have it and call him thst way you can have a one-on-one conversation. get him alone so that you can talk to him and just let him know and if you dont tell him you can lose him so tell him i like you maybe he feels the same way he might have liked you since the 7th grade but you never gave him the time of day. he may like you know if he is stirring at you but may be shy to ask you to go out with him. he may not feel that he can ask you because you are very close. and because you are striking a good useful loving conversation should be very easy.good luck
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you can go with a friend to the table like your just going over there to talk with the guys like all girls doo so he recognizes you then just start talking to him and then be like we deff.. need to hanggout
well hope i helped
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Heyy
well i thought of a few ways for you to start talking to this boy because im sure you can take it from there:
you can have a friend bring you over with her to join him at lunch or in a conversation
you can write him a note
pass his locker and start up a convo
catch him when hes by himself and start talking
well good luck
and i hope i can help
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hey this has happened to me soo many times, i think if you reely wana talk to him and reely love him you cam gather enough self confidence to go talk to him cuz everyday you wait is another day he could ask someone else out, also if you still feel too nervous to go up to him alone have a mutual friend of yours go up with him it will make you feel more comfortable and it might loosen you both up! also be yourself if its one thing ive learned is id you were once frends with him he likes you for you so dont try and be something your not ((sorry its a bit long))
hope i helped!
mucho love janelle <3
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start easy. bring up random conversations er comment his clothes er something. guys like that haha =) you want to seem interested. maybe not like "oh i really wanna be with you" interested but that you want to be his friend. juss start talking to him randomly & it'll probably grow into a friendship & then you guys can slowly become closer & maybe even go out er something. try juss being friends first obviously. juss go for it. you don't want to miss out on a great guy er anything so juss talk to him.
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