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I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it.

if you guys are realy close friends you should come out to him and tell him not to tell any one and then slowly drop the i like you bomb. but be fore you tell him your gay mention something about gay people and if they dont mind them or they love them or what ever then tell him. otherwise if he dosent like them or is homophobic DONOT tell him . so good luck

hope i helped i wish u luck

mizike

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how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore....

you know what to do. i had this problem also but i ended up gay any way and im damn proud of it. im not saying your gunna be gay by all means but you should say to any one who dose it here ill do it like this:
-hey you gay
-shut up dont call me gay cause your trying to coverup fore yourself.
it works almost every time i wish you the best of luck and if they give you a hard time still just go to your guidance coucelor or your vice principal.

good luck hope i helped

mizike

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If everyone in the world had both female and male parts...would gay people be considered gay??

dude thats the most randome thing. where do you have that much time on your hands to think of stupid questions is it realy imperitive that you find this out.

mizike

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ok well im a bi guy 14 and i dont know how to meet other gays and im too ashamed to relle tell everyone and ppl i know arent gay and dont know any gays i even have a friend searching. What can i do????

let me just say if your ashamed of being bi you need to get some self confidence. im gay n cant wait to come out im proud of being gay so i have no problem telling people. so you should first find some confidence and then come out and then it will b easier to meet other guys. if you dont come out you cant exspect to meet n e guys or get asked out no one knows your gay or bi w/e you are so come out and it will be easier.

hope i helped

mizike

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I need your advice...
Well, my friend(John)is gay and he just found out his bf was cheating on him. So, I invited him to see a movie to get his mind off of the situation. Well, of course he wanted to see Brokeback Mountain. So I went with him and what do you know? His ex bf was there with another guy. He asked me if I could pretend to be with him to make his ex jealous. I didn't know anyone in there so i agreed. I didn't think he would do anything extreme. Well during the movie he held my hand, and i felt akward. He even leaned over to kiss me and we actually started making out. I actually enjoyed it and I invited him over to stay the night. Well while were bed one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. The next day at school his ex started telling everyone that he saw me and john making out. Now everyone thinks i'm gay and they aren't being nice about it. Just because i had sex with a guy does that make me gay? And if i am should i try to have a relationship with him? He wanted me to, but i didn't know if i was ready.
Thanks

well to answer these questions we need to know if you like females still. but even without i will say this think it through dont rush into anything you may not be comfortable with. i know if a guy would have sex with me n then say yes i wont a relationship and then fore him to decide hes not comforetabe with it i would b wrather upset so makeshore your ready.

good luck with it

mizike

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hi. i'm 15/m and an in-the-closet homosexual.
here's my problem: there's this guy at my school that i really like-and i mean reeaaalllyy like. he's a really good friend of mine, too. we hang out pretty much every day. problem is, i don't know if he feels "that way". How can i find out if he likes me too without telling the whole world that i'm gay?

well if u reeaaalllyy like him then i would say talk to him n then just kinda slide the question in somehow just b like well r u gay or bi slide it in as i said just make shore its not randome make it part of the conversation.

good luck

mizike

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