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ok well im a bi guy 14 and i dont know how to meet other gays and im too ashamed to relle tell everyone and ppl i know arent gay and dont know any gays i even have a friend searching. What can i do????
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im trying to tell you what to do but sometimes telling people can be hard and ruin your rep im also 14 and i think im bi but its hard 2 tell people because you dont want to ruin your rep. Oh and im looking for some1 to and it is hard if u ever want to talk let me know k.
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let me just say if your ashamed of being bi you need to get some self confidence. im gay n cant wait to come out im proud of being gay so i have no problem telling people. so you should first find some confidence and then come out and then it will b easier to meet other guys. if you dont come out you cant exspect to meet n e guys or get asked out no one knows your gay or bi w/e you are so come out and it will be easier.
hope i helped
mizike
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eharmony.com sorry thats all i could think of but i hope i helped anyway....bye!
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first of be proud of what you believe in!!! if you are gay then that is what you are. don't let anyone pull you down because you are not like them!! now secnd of all if people knew that you were gay then other gays might know you are availible
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Not many people have decided on a sexual preference at fourteen, just wait.
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Try calling a gay hotline. Most major cities have one. You may want to call from a phone booth for privacy. They will let you talk about your feelings and will direct you to organizations that help gay people or bi people. There may even be a gay youth group in your area.
Here is one of the Toll-free Hotlines
GLB Teen Hotline: 1-800-347-TEEN(Weekend Nights Only)
Also Check the white pages of your telephone book under "gay" or "bi" Especially look for hotlines, counseling agencies and youth groups.
But heres my honest opinion, your still very young. Are you sure your really bi? Maybe it's just a phase. Look i'm not here to judge you, i have many gay friends. I Love bi,and gay people. They are just so much more understanding and nicer then everybody else, but i just want you to know for sure that you really are before you go around telling everybody and then later on in life regretting it! If you do believe for a fact that you are then i say keep this to yourself for now. At this age there really isn't much you can do about these feelings. And as you said yourself you don't feel comfortable telling many people yet. Just wait before you tell anyone. But if you want you can try finding someone online to talk to that might be bi, or gay. Maybe you can fulfill your desire online rather then in person. Just go into any chat room and ask if there are any bi, or gay people in the chat that would like to talk. Make a fake Sn just for that task that you might do.
Also try going to these sites:
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^ myspace might have some gay/bi groups.
just take the time to look around.
Also if you want IM me on aim my Sn is DiOr BARBIEE
i can give you some more ideas and what not or maybe i can have a talk with some of my bi friends and ask if they can have a talk with you. if you have any questions i'm sure you can just ask them.
♥ maria ♥
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Maybe you could join some on-line groups on the internet that are around your area. I'm sure you'll be able to find guys that are bi. You could also sign up for Myspace. There are millions of different sexual preferences on there. You'll be able to find someone around your town that goes both ways, I'm sure.
♥ Krissy
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