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hi. i'm 15/m and an in-the-closet homosexual.
here's my problem: there's this guy at my school that i really like-and i mean reeaaalllyy like. he's a really good friend of mine, too. we hang out pretty much every day. problem is, i don't know if he feels "that way". How can i find out if he likes me too without telling the whole world that i'm gay?
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well if u reeaaalllyy like him then i would say talk to him n then just kinda slide the question in somehow just b like well r u gay or bi slide it in as i said just make shore its not randome make it part of the conversation.
good luck
mizike
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I would tell him that you're gay. Just see how he reacts.
If he is disgusted, then you know it wouldn't have worked out and you know that he's just immature and closed minded.
If he IS disgusted, not even friensdhip would have worked out in the first place.
Put yourself out there, and just tell him. It would be a weight off your shoulders. Plus, if he is gay too it would be the perfect opportunity to tell YOU that he's gay too.
That way, you would know if theres a chance. And if you lost his as a friend, you know it wasn't worth even liking him.
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I am assuming that if he "liked" you too in that "special way" you would of sensed it by now. You want him to like you, you would of surely noticed he gave you any signs. That is unless he is confused himself...
You are his friend. You hang out pretty much every day. He already likes you, as a friend. This is a good start. Spend much more time alone. Allow him to get to really know you. Let him earn your trust. He will eventually get your point. If he reciprocates that is his choice. Be patient.
Lastly, be a good person and represent yourself with respect.
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Well you could act like your straight and talk bout some girls and see if he gets interstend in the conversation or if he just sits there and just like yea...or talk bout a guy be like yea ____ is being a jerk latly i hate him. Or flirt and see what he does. Well, Godd Luck!!
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flirt wit him and see if he flirts back. try giving him signs that you like him. but dont make it overious infront of everyone.l hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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well don't you think if he likes you then yall would hook up. Also, if you aren't ashamed of being homosexual i think you should just let everyone know. I know so many people like you. Like seriously girls love gay guys. but don't be ashamed of it. let people know. its who you are and you can not change that.
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