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I don't want him to forget about me
alright, im gonna attempt to keep this short and simple.
ive liked this kid for about 2 years. i still like him. well. now we never talk. the past 2 summers though, i talked to him all the time [through the school years too] well im going into 9th grade [im 14] and yeah now we NEVER talk. i really really wanna start talking to him again though. i'm not popular, i guess you can say he is, although i hate stereotyping people like that and stuff. i have like no guy friends, although he has a lot of friends that are girls. you see, he used to like me. i started talking to him the summer before 7th grade. he told me he liked me.. blahblahblah. 7th grade started & he asked me out. i said no. why? i'm still not sure and i regret it to this day. we continued to talk after that. i guess it started towards the very end of 7th grade & the summer before 8th that he started to seem less interested in me and we would talk less. oh yeah, we only talked online. occassionally in school, but not every day. ok. i'm really shy. around him, i like got so nervous that i could hardly talk. it sucks because i'm already shy as it is, but around him i was like speechless. i know that after a while, that could change though. yeah so since he seemed less interested & our convos were mainly pointless, one day i just stopped talking to him. i haven't talked to him since september or october [online]. long time right? almost a year. like once or twice, maybe 3 times in school we talked, but it was only if he like asked me for a pencil or something. also a few months ago my friend imed him while at my house. and my brother was talking to him for some reason? [he got on his buddylist somehow] yeah anyway. i want to talk to him again. even if we don't go out, i want to atleast be his friend. because it sucks just liking him, thinking about him all the time and knowing that he's out there with other girls. i mean we have this past. and i can't get it out of my mind. i REALLY REALLY like him. i can't just keep doing this. how can i talk to him again, without it being really awkward? somehow i'm gonna do it. i'm not gonna keep holding back. i'll start off by iming him, and hopefully things will kick off from there. i don't want him to forget about our past. how can i do this? thank you so much, i really appreciate it. sorry it was so long, i tried to keep it simple! :]
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wow havent we all been there? im in that same sorta situation, your taking the right step by saying your gonna im him, so do it! just im him and be like hey long time no talk! ask him whats up, and questions about him, his family, friends etc. in school just be friendlier, im shy too and i know how hard it is to make the first move, even if it is just to build a friendship back up! so give it a shot and if it doesnt work out, atleast you will know that you gave it your best shot! good luck!
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well if you do want to talk to him again, then the sooner, the better.
Yeah, it has been a pretty long time, so i'm not sure how he'll react, but really, what have you got to loose?
If he has a myspace, and if you have a myspace, maybe you can send him a friend request, and then leave him a comment saying "hey =] long time no talk lol. so whats up?" hopefully he'll comment you back.
If you guys don't have a myspace, then IM him, and just say "hey =]" if he IMs you back you can say "so its been a really long timee since we've talked". just try and have normal conversation. Ask him how everythings been, hows his summer, if he's going on vacation anytime soon, just stuff like that.
Hopefully after a few conversations (which may be awkward ones) you guys will be friends again, but if not, then try and meet other guys. If your friends know some guys, then hang out in a big group with them. I know that when i'm with my friends i am way more outgoing when meeting new people.
hope i helped in some way or another =] good luck!
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ahh same thing happend to me with this one guy.. like we went out for our first time in decemberr and it went on till like january and then he just like stopped being interested in me and we tottaly just stopped altogether then but then i got sick of not talking so the second he signed on i made sure he wasn't with anyonee so i could tell him exzaclty how i felt and personaly i think you should say what you asked for advice on for him to really see how you feel.. and for some reason i wish i was you so i could pull a good speech off to give to some1 :D
good luck!!
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