f/17
so liked this guy.
he used me as a rebound girl
went back to his ex
is now dumping his currnet g/f (his ex)
and tells me that using me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he wants to hang out with me again to hopefully lead to a relationship,
what should i do?
go back to him because i just got over him and now he tells me hes sorry.
ahhhh
however, if you really like the guy tell him that you will take no shit from him and maybe try and have a relationship with him. I mean, he is human afterall we all make mistakes. Just make him wait a bit, see how much he really wants to go out with u. he could be just using you because he know he can get you.
give him a chance but dont dive in to it head first
Alexisyrhero answered Thursday July 27 2006, 3:26 am: Hey,life is about taking chances and if
he used you as the rebound girl at one point he might do it agian but if you like him enough youll take the chance and go for it,you never know he could really be sorry and want you . [ Alexisyrhero's advice column | Ask Alexisyrhero A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:26 pm: most times, ex boyfriends/girlfriends, are meant to stay ex boyfriends/girlfriends, but whats meant to be will be.
Heres some things you have to consider:
If you gave this guy another chance (even as just being friends) would you develop feelings for him again? Would you want to develop feelings for him again? Is he lieing about wanting to be with you? Well, you'll never know the answers to these questions unless you give him another chance. He may have changed and matured since you guys broke up.
If i were you, i would give him another chance as just friends, you can get to see what he's really all about now, and if he's being honest about how he feels for you. But don't let him think he has you wrapped around his finger. This is just my input, so now its up to you to decide.
KaylaLeanNe answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:34 am: Well i dont think hes worth it. But im a kind of person who believes everyone diserves a second chance. But i dont want you to get hurt so i think your should follow your heart and if you think hes gunna use you then forget about him hes not worth it but if you think he really has changed then give him a chance hope i helped. [ KaylaLeanNe's advice column | Ask KaylaLeanNe A Question ]
hispanica answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:29 am: I wouldn't. If this guy was using you as a rebound girl, I bet that's what he's about to do again, until he finds someone else. So don't let that happen. :] [ hispanica's advice column | Ask hispanica A Question ]
juliia_x3 answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:28 am: no don't.. and then when you do'nt acccpet him he will want you more and start to relize you for you and not his rebound giirl.. this guy did it to my best friend for like 2 yearss and then she just stoppedd caring and he then liked her for herr and not just to make the othe rgirl jelous
so just do'nt take him back no matter how much you want to!!
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