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What he is doing makes no sense!
This is going to be long.
My best guy friend, Sam, I don't know what is going on with him! He would always flirt with me and talk to me. I heard him say that I was hot to one of his friends at the beginning of the year if that matters.
I also heard his friends tryings to guess who he was going to ask out and they kept saying my name and he didn't respond. All he did was stare at me and that day in my last class. right before the bell rang, his friend was like, "Do you like Sam?" and I was like, "Ummmm...No. Why?" and hes like, "Oh, just wondering." and he went out the door.
on my birthday I had invited sam to my party, which was that weekend. I took 10 of my best friends to a movie. While we were in line waiting for the popcorn, he asked if i was going to the dance on tuesday and I said, "Oh. Probably." he smiled and looked at his friend and the exchanged some weird look and then his friend said, "sam doesnt have anyone to go with." and they both stared at me expecting me to say something but I just said, "oh." and we went to go sit down.
the week of the dance, he asked my best friend, Sarah, out. She kept saying, "he barely even talks to me!" but he would only talk to her or hug her when I was around.
during the last class of the day, his best friend asked me again, "would you ever go out with sam?" and I said, "uhhhhhhh i dont know! why do you keep asking me that?!" and he was like, "Dunno..HE MIGHT LIKE YOU!" and I gave him a weird look and he said, "IM JOKING! IM JOKING!" but he didnt sound like it.
But, he broke up with sarah and started going out with taylor again and all he did was ignore me and he wasn't nice to me at all unless she wasn't anywhere close to us. I talked to jake and he said that sam answers when he calls but I've tried to call him many times over the summer but he never answers the phone.
So, I don't understand what he's doing! Does he like me or not?!
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i think that he likes you but he felt that u dont like him. maybe he got embarresed or hurt because of that. you should try talking to him when you see him in person and if it doesnt work the first time try again, he will eventually get over the embarrasment. do u even like him?
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I think he does like you, and when you gave him the impresion you wernt interested he might have felt embarresed and thought maybe you cant be friends like you used to be. or he could just be acting imature b/c you didnt like him and now hes just being a jerk...and if thats the case send it back. be the same way back to him so he knows how it feels. but let him know you still want to be friends.
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He probably does like you but doesn't know how to express himself,boys are like that I know weird right?he was probably going out with sarah to make you jealous and to see if you liked him.you simply just need to tell him that to you he has been acting weird lately and he should explain why.and just tell him the truth about your feelings you two should be able to sort things out.hope this advice helped...
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Okay, judging by your story, I think this is what happened-
Sam started to have feelings for you one day and consulted his freinds. Sams friends decided to try and help but it looks to me like they may have done more damage than help. You see, teenage boys are incredibly stupid when it comes to girls and have no idea how to express themselves properly, so they rely on their dumb friends to get tthe message across or just hope to God that you will figure it out yourself. Both are bad methods. This isn't the only place Sam screwed up. Sam was trying to make you jealous by asking out Sarah, seeing as he barely knew her and that he dumped her shortly after, probly because he saw that this wouldn't win you over any faster. Now Sam is obviously mad and maybe a little hurt that he couldn't get you, so he is ignoring you. It seems to me that Sam is being immature, I think you should be the bigger person and approach him. If you don't feel that way about him, you should let him know. It's not your fault, you can't help how you feel about guys. If you think you may like him, give him a chance. Go on a date and see how things go, but just let him know that no mtter how things turn out, your friendship is valuable to you and you don't want to jeopardize it. Trust me, a guy friend fell for me, I wasn't sure if I liked him, so I gave him a chance, and now he's my boyfriend. We've been happily together for almost five months.
I hope this was helpful to you.
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so obvious that your freindship lead him into liking you,and youve got so much signs that he likes you.look dont play around by asking someone to ask him if he likes you,you go ask him yourself!tell him how hes been acting strange lately and ask if he likes you.if he says no then its ok whatever.but you need to sort out and see how you feel towards him cuz he can ask you if you like him!youll have to give him an honest answer here,if you dont,tell him you guys are just freinds.
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he probaly likes you i think when and if you see him take him by the side alone tell him you want to talk and tell him everything you wrote here and that you not understanding him and you want to know whats going on well i hope i solved your problem or even helped
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YES YES YES he likes you he is just trying to make u jelous so he can see how much you really like him
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Well, He likes you and he doesnt know how to get a girl, or he really likes you and he`s just nerves. It happen to me b4, I whould know what to say to a girl i liked alittle but when it came to the one person my mind went blank. So you might want to goto his house and tell him you dont have feelings for him. But if you dont know where he lives goto anywho.com and goto reverse lookup and just go from there. And that site will tell you where he lives and all.
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try asking him out if u like him but dont be shy i was there before if he does not respond then move on there are plent other fish in the sea.You'll soon find someone right for you.
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