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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
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you have a right to be happy and if your boyfriend isnt making you happy and your ex is then i would suggest that you make a change. expecially if your boyfriend is lying to you. i feel that honesty, trust and communication are the most important things in a relationship and if hes not bieng honest and you cant trust him then theres a big problem. i think that you should consider going out with your ex! i hope i helped let me know if u need anything else!!
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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i think that u should talk to him
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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want to have sex with him but then i dont because i feel like i'll be betraying my mother and disrespecting her house i know im only 17 soon to be 18 in just 11 months.but i really love him and we want to but im scared i don't know what to do. So could someone out there please help me? (link)
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if u have no doubt then i would say go for it but if you feel as if you would be doing something wrong then you should wait until you feel completly comfortable. ultimately its your choice but u should know about the concequenses and be prepared to deal with them. If you do decided to have sex then please be safe:) hope i helped!
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My girlfriend gave me a hand job and i came in my boxers (she is 16 and i am 14). so later on we kinda had sex, but i didnt go all the way in i only went in and out for like 3 seconds, and i didnt have protection and she knew it too. i was dry and didnt have any sperm on me i check before we did it but idk if it dried on my u kno what. so the next day she says i didnt get my period back and her sister did and she says she gets it back whenever her sister does. now she is saying i think im pregnant but i dont know if she is . and now she has me freeking out and im so worried that she is pregnant but the only sign of pregnancy she has is her period isnt back yet so please tell me what you think i need profesional advice thank you so much. (link)
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wait a about a month and see if she gets her period. more than likely a female wouldnt miss their period the day after she had sex due to pregnacy. a late period could be from fatigue or stress or alot of other things. i wouldnt worry about it too much. if she doesnt get her period within a month then she should go to a family planing clinic and get a pregnacy test, its free and u dont need your parents. i have been in this situation before and i know you must be a little scared but dont let it get to you. i hope that i helped! if u need anything else let me know.
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hey theres this boy and he is 2 grades higher than me and hes really sweet and smart,cute,and funny. Should I ask him out? Please help from thinker101. (link)
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its worth a try but start with asking him if he likes u and if his answer is yes then ask him.
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my parents are seperatedddd and are finalizing divorce plans...i dont know who to live with when and its hard to like handle this...i know a lot of people have gone through this, so does anyone have any suggestions???! (link)
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i think you should talk to a counciler or a close friend or anybody that you trust it will make it some what easier. whatever you do dont hold anything inside that will give you alot more problems then you started with. sorry about your parents divorce and i hope that i helped.
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hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?
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i think that you definetly need to have communication for a sucessful realationship. if you cant talk openly with your bf then i dont think that you should have sex with. i hope i helped but sorry if i didnt!!
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Hey i have my first interview in the next couple days, and im really nervous. I have no idea what to say or what questions they're going to ask. Since this is my first job do you think that i'll get hired? Because i have little work experience? Any piece of advice would be very helpful!!! thanks (link)
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no matter how nervous you are try your best to appear confident. dont chew gum while in the interview. when you walk in introduce yourself and shake the persons hand. dress in a nice manner. most importantly be on time, 15 mins. early would be nice. two of the most common questions that are asked at interviews and that i find hard to answer w/o much thought are to state your best qualitys and why the person should hire you. hope i helped!!!
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Ok, i have gone out with this guy I really like several times and everytime i am the one whos always getting hurt. He asked me back out and of course I said yes because I really like him. Everything is going good. But am i just setting myself back up to get hurt by going out with him? and what should i do if he askes me back out, i really like him but should i say yes? (link)
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id say that your giving him another chance to hurt you once more. if you really like him and dont mind that he could hurt you then go for it. but if it breaks your heart then i would advise you to move on. there are more guys out there that would treat you like a queen!! i hope i helped and sorry if i didnt!!
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my uncle just passed away a little over a month ago on his motorcycle at the age of 20. i need a really good song or poem about death. songs i already have are ..
carry on by tim mcgraw
time for me to fly by REO speedwagon
the dance by garth brooks
please remember me by tim mcgraw
slipped away by avril lavigne
i would really like some poems though.
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im really soory about your uncle. here is a poem that made me feel better after the death of my brother.
When the warmth of the sun touches my face,
I see your smile and feel your embrace.
I hear the whisper of love in the wind
And I know that you are close to me again
The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain,
But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.
As the days come and go and the world moves on,
I know you're still here, you'll never be gone.
On the night the Angel came and took your hand,
We cried as you left for an unknown land.
But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight,
For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!
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This is going to be long.
My best guy friend, Sam, I don't know what is going on with him! He would always flirt with me and talk to me. I heard him say that I was hot to one of his friends at the beginning of the year if that matters.
I also heard his friends tryings to guess who he was going to ask out and they kept saying my name and he didn't respond. All he did was stare at me and that day in my last class. right before the bell rang, his friend was like, "Do you like Sam?" and I was like, "Ummmm...No. Why?" and hes like, "Oh, just wondering." and he went out the door.
on my birthday I had invited sam to my party, which was that weekend. I took 10 of my best friends to a movie. While we were in line waiting for the popcorn, he asked if i was going to the dance on tuesday and I said, "Oh. Probably." he smiled and looked at his friend and the exchanged some weird look and then his friend said, "sam doesnt have anyone to go with." and they both stared at me expecting me to say something but I just said, "oh." and we went to go sit down.
the week of the dance, he asked my best friend, Sarah, out. She kept saying, "he barely even talks to me!" but he would only talk to her or hug her when I was around.
during the last class of the day, his best friend asked me again, "would you ever go out with sam?" and I said, "uhhhhhhh i dont know! why do you keep asking me that?!" and he was like, "Dunno..HE MIGHT LIKE YOU!" and I gave him a weird look and he said, "IM JOKING! IM JOKING!" but he didnt sound like it.
But, he broke up with sarah and started going out with taylor again and all he did was ignore me and he wasn't nice to me at all unless she wasn't anywhere close to us. I talked to jake and he said that sam answers when he calls but I've tried to call him many times over the summer but he never answers the phone.
So, I don't understand what he's doing! Does he like me or not?! (link)
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i think that he likes you but he felt that u dont like him. maybe he got embarresed or hurt because of that. you should try talking to him when you see him in person and if it doesnt work the first time try again, he will eventually get over the embarrasment. do u even like him?
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my friend has a drinking problem and she is only 14.any advice to get her to stop. (link)
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the only thing that you can do is tell her how much she means to you and how much it would hurt to watch her get hurt from drinking. and encourage her to get help. i had a drinking problem in my past and what made me realize what i was doing was one of my friends told me how much it hurt her to see me how i was and what i meant to her so maybe it could work for you. hope i helped!!
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If you're IMing someone you don't really know...like you've never met them..but you know they're who they say they are..is that bad? (link)
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no its ok to talk to a person online that you dont know as long as you dont give out info about yourself. hope i helped bye!!
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I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help! (link)
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yes u can get pregnant but its not likely.
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OK so I want to go on a trip that is 9 hours away. It would only be two days, MAYBE three. The reason I want to go is because I have some friends there that I care about more than anything and I miss them a lot. My mom told me that if we had an adult come with us me and my friend could take the trip. My friend's mom and little sister agreed to come. Now that that's settled, I told my mom and now she's having second thoughts about me going. She said I'm too young (even though I'm with my best friend, her mother and little sister) and some more excuses. The most positive thing I got was "the answer AS OF RIGHT NOW is no". Is there any way I can convince my mom to let me take the one and only trip I want to this summer? I'm almost 15 and I told my ma all I wanted for my birthday was her permission to go.
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the problem is that parents see their children alot younger and less mature then they really are so my idea would be to tell her that you arent immature anymore and to trust you and reassure her that you arent gonna do any thing wrong. well hope i helped...good luck!!!
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months-ish now. As of recently his mom and I have become really close and i've been finding out a lot of stuff about him that HE probably should've told me. I mean, I knew that he hung around with some pretty shady people but he didn't tell me that he has some guy coming after him trying to kill him, that he carries a knife around with him everywhere he goes, and that he's stabbed two guys with it. I talked to him about it and when I asked him why he didn't trust me and he said that the more you tell people the more they have against you and the more people know how to hurt you the more they will. I just don't know what to do because I would never ever hurt him and I want him to know that he can talk to me but i'm also mad because I trust him so much and he means so much to me and it's like, I thought he trusted me too. Any advice on what I should do to gain his trust or what I should do about the fact that some guy is trying to kill him would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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i dont think that this is a trust issue. i had the same problem recently becuase my bf was hanging with the wrong crowd and doing things that he shouldnt of done and a guy tryed to kill him bout 5 times and he didnt tell me nothing about it until he found out that i might be pregnant and the guy came after him. i think that he didnt tell me because he thought that he would of lost me and his child. maybe u should ask him if he doesnt trust u or if there is another reason that he doesnt tell you things. well i hope i helped and good luck!!!
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