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seperating parents
my parents are seperatedddd and are finalizing divorce plans...i dont know who to live with when and its hard to like handle this...i know a lot of people have gone through this, so does anyone have any suggestions???!
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My parents have been divorced since I was practicly born. I didn't have a say in then but I'm happy the way it turned out. (Who I ended up living with and all.) How I do it, I live with my mom but visit my dad now and then. For me I don't see him a lot of the time (which is fine by me), I think I've visited him maybe 4x tops this year. I can tell you love both of your parents 100% so maybe you could live with your dad during the year and live with your mom during the summer, or vice versa. Because it says on the papers you have to take turns being with them during the holidays, and you can always visit the other during weekends or breaks (winter break, spring break, etc.).
Hope I helped.
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i have the answer. do what i did. it sounds hard. live with both switiching back and fourth a couple times a week. its just life to me. ive done it since i can remeber and it doesnt bother me much. i get 2 of everythign. its really okay. i hope you get thru this okay! i know you will! you can im me privatley if you wanna talk more. xoxo
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live with the one you think will be there for you most of the time,will help you whenever you need it and will hear you out.its ok dont be mad about divorce i mean think of it this way,imajine YOU were married and had a husband youre having big problems with and your kids are whining to you not to divorce,its hard enough for you to divorce after being together this whole time but to have your KIDS not understanding makes it even WORSE,its your life with your husband ,if youre having problems just leave him......its like the same with your parents here.mabey its even better for them to divorce so they wont fight all the time infront of you!your parents arent the first or last to get divorced.
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I would see which parent I get along with better, and choose to be with them. I mean, it's no offense to the other parent, but if you pick the parent you get along with better, you'll have a better shot at being happy. If you get along with both, I would choose your mother because telling her about your period & boyfriends, and whatnot, won't be as complicated/awkward as it will with your father. The decision is completely your's. Good luck. =]
♥TiNA
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if your a girl i would live with your mom just because she knows you better cuz she went through the same problems when she was younger... but you might get along with your dad better idkkk.. i went through it too hunn so if you need anything or anyone to talk to you could alway message me or im me at toxicbarbie1369 but take time to see the other parent also.
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i think you should talk to a counciler or a close friend or anybody that you trust it will make it some what easier. whatever you do dont hold anything inside that will give you alot more problems then you started with. sorry about your parents divorce and i hope that i helped.
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i almost went through that, but they finally talked it over. well, its not really choosing over which parent you wanna live with because you love both of them the same. so youll probably just live with the one thats closet to you, you know.. the one you could talk about things the most with. and then its not like your not gonna see the other parent? youll see them just as much.. and trust me, its probably for the best :] good luck!
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