OK I was talking to a dude and that is one step before dating and he said that he wanted us to work out and i was like aww he really likes me and he was like you are so sweet and i dont know why your last boyfriend cheated on you so i was like ok we are going to start dating and we are going to work out well not to long after that we didnt talk for a week so he called and he was acting really weird and i said is there another gurl and he said no and i was like ok well i called him the next day and he was at that girls house and today i saw them in the store together it made me sick I need help trying to get over him because i need to have fun not worred about him plz somebody help
shopoholicgrl answered Sunday July 23 2006, 12:53 am: that boy sounds like a player. just keep saying to yourself that you are a strong, beautiful girl and you don't need a boy to make you happy. he will notice that you aren't paying attention to him anymore and it will drive him nuts! boys want what they can't have. pretend you don't notice him. try not answering his phone calls for awhile. give him the impression that you will NOT accept this attitude from a boy. it just isn't acceptable and you deserve better than him. =]]] hope i helped! [ shopoholicgrl's advice column | Ask shopoholicgrl A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Sunday July 23 2006, 12:29 am: block him out completely. block him off your aim list..dont go around him at all type of thing. you may not want to, but it seems to be the only thing that works. i know, because im doing it for the second or third time. keep yourself busy because when you find yourself sitting around is when you start thinking, and when your missing someone you dont need to be, thinking always leads to, not good things. when you DO start thinking about him, try to tell yourself how much better you are without him. even if you dont really believe it, just say it. it all may sound weird but trust me..sadly it works. good luck with this. you really dont need him ♥ [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
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