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My boyfriend doesn't tell me anything.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months-ish now. As of recently his mom and I have become really close and i've been finding out a lot of stuff about him that HE probably should've told me. I mean, I knew that he hung around with some pretty shady people but he didn't tell me that he has some guy coming after him trying to kill him, that he carries a knife around with him everywhere he goes, and that he's stabbed two guys with it. I talked to him about it and when I asked him why he didn't trust me and he said that the more you tell people the more they have against you and the more people know how to hurt you the more they will. I just don't know what to do because I would never ever hurt him and I want him to know that he can talk to me but i'm also mad because I trust him so much and he means so much to me and it's like, I thought he trusted me too. Any advice on what I should do to gain his trust or what I should do about the fact that some guy is trying to kill him would be greatly appreciated.
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I don't think its a good idea to date someone who hangs around with people of that caliber. He
can't be much better than those who are trying to "kill him". Sorry, I know you probably like the guy but I'm just giving you my honest opinion.
Anyone who would keep that information from someone they say they care about is worthless. By not knowing, you have been in jeopardy of being killed yourself every time you are with him and not even been aware of it. You really want someone who cares so little about you?
You can do nothing about the people who are trying to kill him. You can save your own skin though by running as fast as possible in any other direction. :)
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i dont think that this is a trust issue. i had the same problem recently becuase my bf was hanging with the wrong crowd and doing things that he shouldnt of done and a guy tryed to kill him bout 5 times and he didnt tell me nothing about it until he found out that i might be pregnant and the guy came after him. i think that he didnt tell me because he thought that he would of lost me and his child. maybe u should ask him if he doesnt trust u or if there is another reason that he doesnt tell you things. well i hope i helped and good luck!!!
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im sorry to hear that but hanging around or being with a guy like him will probably get you hurt because if this guy figures out that your his girlfriend and that he loves you he will try to hurt you to affect him and i know its hard because you guys have been together for about 5 months and you want him to trust you and tell you these things but i think what he feels is that if he tells you that you will get hurt and he shouldnt feel like that because i think and believe you love him and you dont want him to get hurt because that would hurt you soo much anyway try telling him that that you want him to trust you
Hope I Helped a little
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