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I like someone but i still love someone else
About a month ago, i just got out of one of my first serious relationships. During that relationshipp i was stressed with school and friends because me &my boy ajhungouteveryday and i started to lose friends. Everytime i tried to make sometime for my friends me and aj would get into a hugee fight, but dont get me wrong we were just soo in love. Well i guess we were atleast, i knew i was. We broke up once i balled my eyes out, then we got back together things were going AMAZING. then one day when he came home from vacation we were supposed to hang out but i was staying with a friend cause my parents were away, so i told him we could chill with my friend for like an hour then go back to his house. He gets all mad we get into this huge fight about how he says i dont care about him, when i really did. We broke up and havent talked much since then and then two weeks after he gets back with the girl he was with before me. So anyways, im still in love with the kid, and im wondering if he is too cause it always seems like hes trying to make me jealous, plus everything he once said to me in our relationship like i love you so much baby no one can ever compare and a bunch of other thigs like that. Well from a past experience, ive learned to move on so i did. I like this kid, and last night we hooked up. Afterwards, first thing that can to my mind was aj. How am i ever supposed to be with another guy or move on when all i see is aj.. i need help or advice pleasee! & thank you=/
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I know how it feels to need someone and for them to not be there for you. It's really hard. I don't really have much advice, just that I understand what you're going through and that, well, if he's trying to make you jealous he isn't worth your time.
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hi. i've been through the same thing, about a year ago. first off, you can never stop loving your first serious boyfriend. i don't know how long you two were together, but my first serious relationship lasted for about 5-6 months. i broke up with him because he was going to another school, and i wanted to save him the pain of not hooking up with girls that he liked. but i missed him and cried every night soo much after i broke up with him, but i decided i didn't want to get back with him, because then it'll be more painful when we break up again. the best thing was to move on. maybe it was too soon to hook up with somebody? i hooked up with somebody about a month after the break-up, but then i broke up with him like, 3 weeks after, because i still had feelings for my ex. so maybe you should not be in a relationship for a while, until you know in your mind AND heart that you're ready to have another relationship. throughout this time, i know you'll miss everything you've done with aj and would want to go back with him. but DON'T! it's not going to help, it'll probably make it worse. best thing to do is to just hang out with your girlfriends, and have fun. keep aj out as much as possible. if you're trying to get him out of your life, it's not going to happen. your first serious relationship will always be there no matter how much you might have thought you moved on. i think that he still have feelings for you, but he just doesn't wanna show it the way girls might show it. leave him be; let him date whoever he wants, because if you're his first serious relationship also, he'll never forget you, and if it was meant to be, you two might get back together in the future.
hope i helped.
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