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my boyfreind
hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?
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having a good relationship, you have to talk. if you dont talk. and just be sexual. it sounds like hes just in it for the sex. talk to him and tell him how you feel
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For a relationship to work with someone, you do need to communicate with the person. If all your relationship is based on is sex, then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. Yes, sex does play a part in a relationship (when you're in love.) But, also, you do need to get along and talk to one another to make your relationship last. ♥
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If you don't even talk to him don't have sex with him , that makes no sence.Don't dump him just yet first talk to him about not talking then see if he starts talking if not then dump him. ♥
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Well only if you feel you need to.But maybe you guys arn't ready yet if its going to be such a big deal.Maybe if you leave the topic alone.I dont think you should dump him over that.But if you guys arn't having the greatest relationship and you guys can't even talk, then maybe its time to end it.
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i think that you definetly need to have communication for a sucessful realationship. if you cant talk openly with your bf then i dont think that you should have sex with. i hope i helped but sorry if i didnt!!
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I don't think that you should DUMP him... but maybe just talk to him. But what I'm wondering is, how could you really call him a boyfriend if all you really want is... sex?
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having sex is for people who are in love.. if you don't talk then i doubt you in love? i think he's using you for sex;; if i were you.. i would dump him yes.
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You are not married I take it. I will not have sex before I'm married. You need to get away from him as soon as you can.
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Well, I wouldnt DUMP him over it but you definitely need to be ready for sex. If you cant talk to eachother, you cant have sex. Tell him how you feel and say we cant have sex until we talk first. Get to know eachother! Go on dates where you need to talk so dont go to places like the movies where theres no talking. Talk on the phone. Dont rush into things like sex too fast!
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No, you should talk to him. Tell him you'd rather not have sex for a day. And see how it goes, if it's awkward and you don't feel comfortable with him, then you can leave him. Until then, chill.
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Unless you want to get even more hurt in the future, you need to have a relationship before having sex. That's just my opinion. & if you can't talk, I don't think you need to be having sex. I wouldn't say you need to dump him unless he is pressuring you to do things you don't want to or is only around for one thing. But maybe you should get to know eachother more & start talking before you consider such a big step.
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