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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do?
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Well you can talk to him which is rather blunt and possiblly quite awkward so you could also jsut start to go for it and if he reects then it is just moving a little fast for him. If he wants to wait to do more then you should repsect that if you want to be with im.
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Then make the next move when he goes to hug u, u kiss him.
Hope this helps!
Mandy xox
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well you got to wait for the rite time try to take her to a movie and then try to make a move
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it's only a week... don't freak out yet! i'm guessing you're young and not really into the whole long term thing so a week is quite a bit of time? not a bad thing no worries but just wait a little bit. if he doesn't kiss you after say, a month, then maybe kiss him or just talk to him about it and see if there's a reason he's not. good luck. <3
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Well it is only been a week since you two have been dating, so he might just be nervous to take it a step further, and even if he did, he might be afraid you wouldn't want to do that, and that he made a mistake in trying.
Maybe slowly just ease into it. During school, whenever you guys are going to seperate classes, just maybe give him a peck on the cheek every now and then too before you leave.
And then the next time you two are hanging out, just go over and give him a peck on the lips! :) And once he knows that you're ready to kiss him, then everything should just fall into place. You don't always want to rush too fast. Also, guys like it sometimes whenever the girl makes the first move instead. :]
I hope I helped.
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First of all, if it's only the second week, it's not that bad that all you've done is hugged. However, I totally understand that you're getting tired of the snail's-pace progress your relationship is making. The best advice I can give(as a guy that's been in the same situation before) is that you've got to make a move. There's only three reasons why he hasn't made a move by now:
1) He's shy.
2) He's not familiar enough with you yet and isn't sure whether making a move now will scare you off.
or
3) He's gay.
Sooooo... my guess is that it's either #1 or #2 so what you should do is make the move yourself. Guys LOVE it when the girl makes the first move and it will give him the confidence to make the move in the future.
Of course, if you go to his house and find rainbow streamers and Bon Jovi posters, it might be #3, so you should run away.
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ok i think this is gonna help because i made a horrible mistake of dating a guy and then dumping him because it wasnt moving faster. Now i just think you should kiss him yourself. If you want him to move faster you gotta make that move yourself, you cant completely expect the guy to do all the work. I really hope that helped.
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Well, it totally depends on the type of bf you have actually, if he likes to take it slow and play Casanova for a little while, why not?
Guys like to feel macho and sweep girls off their feet. There's no rush to anything, do take your time, and cherish the Slow-paced "game" you both are playing. It's much more kinkier, well, to me, at least. Anyways, if you do move in too fast, you might send the wrong message to your bf. Not a good thing for such an early stage in the relationship.
You should follow your intuition. Read his body language.
If he does try anything in about another week, dig in. :)
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Well Ask HIM WheTher you Want to move a FAster . And mAybe YOu Could BE THe ONE Who shld ACT OUT And MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FASTER.
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wen ya about to hugg pull him closer to ya and kiss him on the lips u rebel
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i think that u should talk to him
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