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Am i setting myself back up to get hurt
Ok, i have gone out with this guy I really like several times and everytime i am the one whos always getting hurt. He asked me back out and of course I said yes because I really like him. Everything is going good. But am i just setting myself back up to get hurt by going out with him? and what should i do if he askes me back out, i really like him but should i say yes?
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If he broke up with you a couple times already and just got you back..... I think you should definately break up with him. If he liked you then he wouldn't have kept on playing you like a yo-yo. My best friend went through almost exactly the same thing. The girl broke up with him 4 times. Yea. So, I hope you don't get hurt over n' over again. =) Best Wishes.
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Know what? I have a really good friend who's "suffering" from the same problem that you have. Whenever she and her bf breaks up, she ALWAYS gets back with him after a day or two beacause she says she can't stand the pain of not being with him. What she doesn't realize is that getting back with her guy only means that she's allowing herself to be hurt AGAIN.
The last time[and I hope this would REALLY be the last time] they broke up, I actually "banned" her from getting back with her guy because I'm tired of seeing her cry and get hurt over and over again.
Now I'm going to ask you a question: Do you want to get hurt over and over again like my friend?
You know, it's BETTER to experience the pain only ONCE(and get hurt so, so much because of the sudden heavy downpour) than to experience it over and over and over again(and then regret in the end because you allowed yourself to be treated the wrong way so many times).
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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If i were you, i wouldn't say yes.
Because if he doesn't care about your feelingyou should break up with him or say no!
He treated you wrong to start with &you shouldn't deal with that.
Thats what i would
&&i hope i helped.
Nicole Lynn
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Anytime you have a relationship with someone, your're setting yourself up to get hurt. But that's what it's all about; you have to be take risks. Just don't become too attatched & vulnerable too easily. Take it slow. If you get hurt, then atleast you'll walk out a stronger person & learn from your mistakes. I'd give him one last chance; just don't walk into it caring too much.
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id say that your giving him another chance to hurt you once more. if you really like him and dont mind that he could hurt you then go for it. but if it breaks your heart then i would advise you to move on. there are more guys out there that would treat you like a queen!! i hope i helped and sorry if i didnt!!
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