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i want to have sex but not sure if i should do it
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want to have sex with him but then i dont because i feel like i'll be betraying my mother and disrespecting her house i know im only 17 soon to be 18 in just 11 months.but i really love him and we want to but im scared i don't know what to do. So could someone out there please help me?
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If you have any doubts, he shouldn't whip it out.
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If you feel it would be disrespectful to your mother's wishes, and thats something thats important to you, then I think you should continue as you have been.
I personally never gave a shit about what my parents thought, many people are like that, but if you want to respect your parents I think thats admirable. It shows alot of maturity. When you hit the point where you are comfortable, and you choose to have sex, you wont regret it.
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if you're in doubt. thats you're conscience telling you not to do so. you have to think of all the little things of what could go wrong, over just a few minutes of pleasure between you and your bf. this guy may not be the guy you married, so save yourself for the guy you do.
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If you're doubting it means you really aren't ready. I know a lot of people lose their virginity at a younger age but I'm sure many regret it. Waiting til your older and trully ready really isn't big deal, I'm sure your boyfriend will understand. And if your worried that you'll be betraying your mother then that's even better reason to wait until your sure you're ready.
Hope I could help you.
♥ sexy_rexy xox
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When it comes to having sex, you should do it if it feels like the right decision to you. Don't jump into anything that you are not feeling ready for. Even though you've been with your current boyfriend for quite awhile now, that won't necessarily make it an easy decision.
If you aren't wanting to do it because it feels like betraying your mother, you probably aren't ready to "take the plunge".
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if u have no doubt then i would say go for it but if you feel as if you would be doing something wrong then you should wait until you feel completly comfortable. ultimately its your choice but u should know about the concequenses and be prepared to deal with them. If you do decided to have sex then please be safe:) hope i helped!
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