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age difference
okay, i'm 14/f and there's someone that i like, but he's 2 years younger than me. is it okay to like or date someone 2 years younger? it seems kind of weird, but it's not that big of a difference and in fact i think my parents are 2 years apart. thanks
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Well if he's 12, it kinda matters now, but when your older it doesnt really matter. but do whatever you want because it's your choice,and if you like him go for it.
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It honestly sounds a bit immature to me. That's like a 7th grader dating a 5th grader, or an 8th grader dating a 6th grader. I, personally, wouldn't do it. As you get older, an age difference becomes less and less significant.
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the general algorithm for appropriate couples is age divided by two plus seven.
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It can be a big deal at your age, but when you get to be older it isn't such a big deal. It all basically depends on maturity level. If this kid is in your grade, I don't think it would be huge, but if he was in a lower grade then it might be an issue. Just follow your heart and do what you think is right.
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yeah it is weird a lil(no offence)cuz the guy should be your age or older so he can be more mature and know how to treat you and be more experienced than you.for your parents its ok cuz theyre a lot older and are experienced and know how to treat eachother but this guy is 12.its not a big age differenc and age usually dosent matter but i think hes too young to even be in a realationship and isnt ready i think you should wait till hes a teenager at least.
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yes it is ok to like someone who's not your age i mean he is only to years younger and that's ok so if you like him go for it.
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In my opinion, I don't think it matters how old you are as long as you guys both like each other. You are very young, so as much as you think it will, it probably won't last 'forever', but that's the idea of dating - just to find out who you want when it is time for you to find someone you want to spend all your time with. once you get to your parents' age, 2 years won't be a big deal at all - no controversy. But the answer to your question is yes, it's definently okay.
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