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Trust
well i guess my friends think they cant trust me cause my so called best friend said that he had sex with his girlfriend witch i was not to thrilled about but oh then i found out that it was just a joke and that everyone of my good friends knew about it and said it was a good idea cuase they wanted to know if i would tell anyone about this so he told all my good friends what he was doing so if they found out they could tell him and none them though of the fact that it really hurts me to know that they dont trust me then finally i one of my true friends told me that it was a joke and now there all pissing me off cause i have no idea of what to believe anymore and then the guys who everyone told me that planed this out was my best friend and honestly i cant stand him right now and i dont no if i want to forgive him or not cause it really hurts me adn hes like it was just a joke dude and i am like i dont care that hurts and he just wants to forget it ever happen and im not willing to do that....any ideas what i should do about him and also what i should say to all my other friends...oh yea another thing that makes me mad is that i keep getting different stories Thanks ppl!!
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It wasnt right for your friends to do this to test you. They should have trusted you anyway. Consider your friends and look at the possibility that you might not trust them either. If thats the case you need to do some new friend shopping. :)
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Ok, well just be straight up with your friends. Sit them all down and just say this isnt cool. Tell them all that ONE of the guys has mentioned something to you, just dont say who. That way, the 'true friend' will not be ratted on. Just tell them it is childish and you want it to stop. And to the one who started this, just be like, dude, what the crap is wrong with you?! Put him in your shoes. That is what helps me and my friends. If you have any more questions, just go to my inbox. Hope I have helped :]
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