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breakup
I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?
Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.
f/13
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Wow...the same thing happened this year with a guy a like. I mean, how can he NOT see she's using him, right? Well, it pains me to say that if you point it out, he'll think you're coming on really strong, and that you're intenionally trying to break them up. (duh). What he doesn't see is that it's true, she will hurt him. All he sees is a jealous friend who won't let him be happy. Just wait. When she dumps him, you be there for him...but don't say I told you so.
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he knows you love him? what is his reaction?if he likes you too then try being EXTRA nice to him and whenever his girl pisses him off ALWAYS be there to comfort him and hear out his problems and all.WATCH IT WORK...but itll take time..try to look better than her all the time
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Hi, don't break them up. This is between him and her and besides if this is the case then he should soon see through her plans. Let him find out, that way you won't get blamed. Daniel.
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don't get involved cause than he'll blame you (which could lead to him forever hating you) your better off just waiting till it happens and being a shoulder to lean on when it does
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Well...dont get involved with his relationship with her. You dont want to be the one to break them up. But make sure that when they do...(since they obviously will if she does do that)...You be the first one to tell him that no girl like that deserves him. Tell him that he's too good for any girl...especially one who would do something like that to a guy like him. Just be there for him. He'll get the point that you care about him more than any other girl. That will give you a better chance of being with him.
Hope that helped.
♥ Me
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well I think you shouldn't break them up because in a way your gonna feel bad what you've done like regret also if your best friend accidently find out hell probably won't want to talk to you anymore... I think you should just always be there for him and when he notices that hell always have you as a best friend hell probably fall for you how you fall for him also you could tell him how he feels I think you should like always ask to go out and stuff but as friend ;)... but @ the same time remember you don't wanna feel awkward around a best friend when something doesn't work out well hope I helped =)
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Well, this is tough. But I really wouldn't get too involved.
Maybe, try calmly talking to your best friend and sya, "Listen i think she might hurt you in the future. And maybe you should find someone else." If he gets angry, just say, "I'm really sorry. I only want whats best for you."
Don't do anymore than that.
Just let time got by and see what happens.
Everything happnes for a reason...
hope it helps
♥ Laura
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I was in a situation similar to this. Except i didnt love him. And well, i kinda just stayed out of it and he finally realized she was no good. And they broke up and i stayed out of it mostly.
So, Just stay out of it and he will realize that she is no good. Give it time.
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To be honest, dont get involved in any way with anyone else's relationships. Thats a big oopsy! It could leave your bestfriend hating you and never speaking to you again. People in situations like this need to find out the hard way and learn for themselves. You can tell him about what she does, just so he knows, But dont start plotting to break them up.
Because if shes like that, then eventually they will break up, and you can makeyour move.
And breaking them up with out your bestfirned knowing wouldnt be right, your not being honest to him at all, just wait for the time to come, because if the girl hes dating is like you said, they'll break up and you an be with him.
And also your 13, you have an extreamley long long time ahead of you for boys :)
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