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its hard to trust him
well me and my boyfriend are back together he asked me out and i said yeah...but he is being nice but he wants to go to this place where all my friends hangout and all his friends play soccer and we all hang out there and im just worried that he will hit on my friends...and tommorow he is going to new jersey with his friends but i dont trust his friends because they always try to break us up and i dont know what i should do should i be mad that he is going to the those places?...well thank you
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hey,
In this situtation you need to have trust. Trust plays a major key in a relationship. As for his friends most guys are like that. If your boyfriend cares about you he won't let his friends make his desions for him. And if he does happen to break up with you try to find someone else. Apparently he doesn't care too much about you (if he does break up with you) and if he doesn't care about you why should you waste your time on him.
love,
Brittni
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I know how you feel. That's how i feel about my boyfriend's friends. I think that if he did hit on your friends when you go to this hangout place then he's just not worth it but at least you will see what he is really like. But it's all about trust. When he goes to New Jersey, his friends might try to push him to hit on girls but you need to trust him that he wont do it. Plus, he already likes you, or he wouldnt have asked you out so there must be something about you that he doesnt see in other girls. Also, who could he possibly pick up in new jersey?? Lont distance relationships never work. Believe me...he knows that just as much as you do. Just trust him and hope that things will work out.
Good luck.
♥ Me
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i think if you can't trust him honestly.. i think you should let him go. if your that worried just let him go he isn't worth your time. i have been in this situation recently and i realized their not going to change their ways they are just going to continue being who they were before. changes are if he hurt you the first time, he'll do it again. ask why you aren't going with him.. because honestly if you and him are going out again he should take you with him and he should treat you like a princess. and if not he isn't worth it... just let him go i know it'll be hard but he's not worth all that trouble! hope i helped!
-Bess
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Well you said it yourself. You don't trust him. Red flag here!! Trust is very important in any relationship, even friendships. Do you really want a guy you think will hit on your friends?? As far as his friends go, noone can talk us into doing something if we didn't want to do it and if he is that easy to persuade to break up with you then you don't need that either. No you shouldn't be mad. You just need a better guy all together. The most important thing you can give yourself is respect. Now respect yourself and stop worrying about this guy.
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Don't show that you're mad you want things to keep going great between the two of you.You two should spend more time together then with his friends.As far as your friends keep an eye on them,your guy when you see that he's trying to hit on them,keep them apart,and try to come up with excuses to spend some time alone.His friends totally need to mind their business,leave you both alone,and they definitely need some girls to keep them busy.
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Well, you can't control your boyfriend if he wants to go somewhere that you don't want him to. I suggest that you either go with him to this "hang out place" or ask someone who is also going to be there to tell you what happens. If he does end up hitting on other girls, tell him about it and how it makes you feel. If he is very sorry and says he won't do it again, give him another chance. If he blows the 2nd chance, hes not worth it. As for the New Jersey thing, there is nothing you can do about that. Just make sure you tell him how much you care about him before he leaves.
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