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So embarassed!!
A friend and I had sex tonight. this was definitely not the first time and the other times have been great. and he has acted pretty cool after and things weren't awkward by any means. so tonight, i was on my period. we still had sex but he didn't know i was on it. i probably should have told him i know. anyways, i'm not sure how much blood or whatever was on the condom. and i have a feeling when he went to throw it away he saw the blood on it. he hasn't said anything about it and when he came back into the room he was just kinda.. weird, not how he would normally act. but yeah needless to say it's very embarrassing. I don't think he will want to talk to me again after this.. would you confront a girl about this or not say anything? and if he does end up talking to me, should i say anything about it? i'm afraid he will tell his friends that's a reason it's embarrassing.
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he probably didn't want to embarrass you so he didn't say anything, but a lot of guys aren't comfortable having sex on the period, so next time let him know beforehand.
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Just ask him why he is acting different and weird. If he says nothing, then ask him if it is because of you and how you were on your period. If he tells you straight up, talk to him about it. Hope this helps!
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Give males some credit for common sense. Actually, DEMAND some common sense from them.
Men know we bleed. It's a fact of life as real as farting or burping or shitting, and women do all those things too, even if we pretend we don’t. Yes, it's a little bit yucky and guys are completely entitled to not liking it, however, when they are exposed to a bit of menstrual blood by accident, the only mature and decent thing a guy can do is get the hell over it.
If he never talks to you again because of this, he is a childish brat.
If he confronts you about this, like it’s somehow your fault, he is arrogant turd.
If he tells his friends, then he is lowest and more ignorant kind of male around so you can give him a swift kick in balls and tell him that you have nothing to be ashamed of and if he can’t handle a tiny little bit of menstrual blood in the future he should stick to fucking men.
If he does the correct, mature thing, and politely ignores this, or simply kindly says that yeah, it creeps him a bit, then just smile and say yeah, you didn't like it either so we'll try to avoid.
It’s not a big deal. It happens to everyone. It will happen to you again in your life, and it will happen to him again too. Sure, it’s a bit awkward, but don’t let it become a big deal, because it isn’t. It’s just biology.
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If he is still at your house just like go to the bathroom and come out and be like omg i'm on my period. Or just like if he says something just be like yea, i think that was my period cuz right after I went to the bathroom and I got it. Or you could tell a friend who would tell him.
good luck
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