i am Bianca Zablan...
plain and simple...
but i like playing the guitar...
i like all music...
music is my language...
music controls my life...
my life is what is my rythym
that's me
E-mail: p1pz828@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Philipines
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Yahoo: funkstah828
MSN: thirdy08
Member Since: March 28, 2006
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me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do? (link)
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given your situation...
i suggest you should just decide... this is one of those hard descisions coz your feelings are the one on the line...
who do you really love?!
your current boyfriend:
you really love him and and he really loves you... so, what's the big deal?!
your ex-boyfriend:
he wants you back, but is he sincere?! remember the things he has done to you before?!
decide... talk to your current boyfriend about this, after all, relationships like these are made for helping each other... as your current boyfriend on how to deal with it... i am sure he will answer "talk to him" if he really cares and loves you... when you talk to you ex-boyfriend... tell him exactly what you feel... confront him and ask him if he is really sincere...
if so... then i give you the right to decide between the 2...
-BiAnCa-
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okay, im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even made out or done anything with a guy. and its not that im a loser or anything im actually pretty popular in school but all my friends are out like hooking up with guys all the time and ive never done anything. and people laugh at me too for it. its just like all the guys i know see me as a friend but not a girfriend so i never get any guys. help. how do i meet more guys? and how can i get this guy ive been crushing on a for a while to like me? (link)
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here's the answer to your question...
given that situation, i know that we girls wan to be loved and fit in... fine, accept it that your friends have boyfriends... does it mean you got to have too?! no! don't force yourself to do something that you are not... you should not worry about these things coz i know... i got the same problem before and i've managed to fix it... concentrate on more important things...
and if your friend blame you for that, then they're not your REAL friends...
hope ya gonna use my answer
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My mother is having an affair, thing is. If she gets caught by my step-father, he will kick both her and me out. I have two years of school left, and I need to get good grades to get into further study because i dont have much $$. How do i convince her that she's gambling with my entire future? (link)
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let's say that's your given position...
on the side of your step-dad:
i would get really mad if my wife REALLY has an affair with another man... i won't blame him!... but consider this, are they really having an affair?!
on the side of your mother:
don't you know you're cheating on your husband?! alright, w make a lot of mistakes on our life... but do we have to risk our marital relationship to please ourselves?
on the side of your mom's other one:
SCREW YOU! don't you know she's taken?!
on your side:
i'd consider first the fact that my mother is cheating on my step-dad rather than your schooling coz this has a greater impact on YOU!
ADVICE:
i suggest that you should keep this as secret as possible to your step-dad... help your mom... but you have to confront your mom and tell her on what she is doing (and that is cheating on your step-dad)... let your mom tell your step-dad coz on this way, you won't get caught... part of being married are obstacles like this one... let them fix these problems... don't butt in... it's their responsibility not to let YOU carry burdens such as these...
tnx
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so your step-dad deserves it...
ask yourself "is it right that you will cheat on your husband?!"...
tell your mom to confront your step-dad before everything is too late...
don't hesitate to talk to her...
communication is good for the couple and the soul
-BiAnCa-
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