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boy troubles
okay, im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even made out or done anything with a guy. and its not that im a loser or anything im actually pretty popular in school but all my friends are out like hooking up with guys all the time and ive never done anything. and people laugh at me too for it. its just like all the guys i know see me as a friend but not a girfriend so i never get any guys. help. how do i meet more guys? and how can i get this guy ive been crushing on a for a while to like me?
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You are only 15. You shouldn't have to worry about this. I'm 17 and I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 16. I always had more friends that were guys. As only freinds. Turns out I hooked up with one of them. So be on the lookout becuase one of the guys that you think would never like you may jus be in the friend pool until he thinks its right to ask you out.As for getting more guys..try to be different. Level with them and find similarities. But don't be similar that you slip into that friend zone. ;P
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here's the answer to your question...
given that situation, i know that we girls wan to be loved and fit in... fine, accept it that your friends have boyfriends... does it mean you got to have too?! no! don't force yourself to do something that you are not... you should not worry about these things coz i know... i got the same problem before and i've managed to fix it... concentrate on more important things...
and if your friend blame you for that, then they're not your REAL friends...
hope ya gonna use my answer
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You should start feeling more confident about yourself and start talking to the guy. Don't always talk to him, just make casual conversation.
*Hope I Helped*
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I think you should be worrying about something else before you start asking these questions.
You care way too much about what everyone thinks of you, and thats just a bad result with relationships!
You say "It's not like I'm a loser" So every girl who isn't experienced in that area by the time they reach 15 makes them a loser? No way, thats completly wrong.
You know what, people who laugh at you now won't be laughing later. The girls who laugh will likely be pregnant in a few years, and the guys who laugh will eventually get a girl pregnant too early on. So you need to tell them to grow up and they should be laughing at themselves. It's not funny, or cool, to have sex young. It's fun until the consequences come at you. Then you pay the price young. If you become pregnant, you pay a huge price. All of your fun with friends are partly gone. Take this advice from someone whose had to watch people they live around them mess up.
Sounds to me like you just want a guy to make out with and brag about your reputation to everyone. Which is low. I understand if you just want to be with a guy and you truly do want to experience these things, but you are going about it for the wrong reasons. You can't force people to like you, but you CAN let them know you exist by talking to them.
-TheTeenGirl
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Why do you care what people thing...?
This is why people are having sex so young now, because we let our peers get to us, but that is to blame on the media...
But, I know me telling you this is not going to do anything so to answer your question...
To meet more guys, just don't be shy and just talk to them...
And the guy you like...i don't know what your relationship is like...but if it is a good one, you should just come out and tell him...
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You could talk to a guy and like flirt with him and like show all of the people that you are outgoing and that you can get a guy. So all you need to do is like ask a guy to hang out or just flirt with them a little. Hope this helps (and they're itiats if they make fun of you!!! That's just sad!!) Wish you all of my luck.
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Act more flirty twords guys. You said that your friends get all the guys. Well tell your friends who the person you like is so they should know not to hook up with him. Ask the guy you like to hang out more. Sometimes bring your friends and have him bring his this way you can meet more guys. =)
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