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I'm getting married in August :) My fiance is in the Navy and will be training as a SEAL here soon. After we're married we will only have 10 days together before he leaves and goes to training. Then 2 days later I go back to college. With all his training it's going to be really hard see each other. Basically our first year of marriage will be spent apart. I'll see him at his boot camp graduationa and possibly Christmas. Then he goes to BUDS for 6 months and I won't be able to see him then. I'm just worried about how I'm going to be able to cope and handle being away from him that long. We'll be together for 4 years this September. I have my college while he's gone so I know that will keep my semi busy. I just need advice on how to keep myself from going into depression from not seeing him. I know someone who cut themselves because their husband was gone and I really don't want to go down that path. So I basically just need some things to keep my occupied while he's gone. I'm going to be making a scrapbook while he's away so I'm hoping that'll help some. Any suggestions would be great! Sorry it's so long! (link)
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Hi,
I really know the way you feel … I was going to the same little bit different, I worked in Europe and my fiancé was here… anyway!!!
What you can do is take all you time to focus on the college, spend time with your family and your soon husband family, and you will see how the time will fly, (what I did was to open a note page in my computer so I can ride down what I do beside working, and a lot of picture…) so when your soon husband come back home you will show him the pictures you guys will have lot of fun looking at , maybe change the house/apt little bit something new, keep a lot of picture of him around in the house it will make you feel good . I wish you the best and good luck in everything!
God bless you both , hope my advice help you :-)
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i m 21 yrs old and he is 23. his birthday is coming. now he is not here. he will come before his birthday. he doesnt like going to park and parties and cakes. i want to give him a treat in a resturant just he and i. will he be happy? pl suggest. (link)
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hi, maybe you can cook something nice for him, candle maybe a nice romantic movie :-)
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