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Last Update: April 12, 2015
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I've had my seperators for 5 days tomorrow i get my braces however one fell out about 20 mins ago. Will i still be able to get braces tomorrow? (link)
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It won't make that big of a deal, you'll be fine!
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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Lordy girl just wait! Sex isn't all its made out to be, it's awesome with a person you love.
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There is this junior in my drama class and he is so cute, and I'm a freshman. I caught him looking at me a lot once. But I don't think it meant anything at all. My lines in are play are directed to him... and it's a really nasty pickup line (out of the subject). Do you think that there is any possibility that he likes me? I mean I guess that I'm pretty attractive and I talked to him once. (link)
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As for it being possible that a junior would like a freshman- it's very possible. My boyfriend was a junior and I was a freshman when we started dating. But as for if this particular guy likes you, I would try talking to him casually and whatnot and see where it takes you.
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'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant? (link)
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I'm not sure what the ipill is- but I can say there's an very unlikely chance that she will.
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Hi im only 12 and i have only just started my period i sleep fOr about tewlve hours is it ok if i leave my tampon in for that long im only new to this and have no clue
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It's recommended that you leave it in for only 8 hours so you don't get toxic shock. I would recommend wearing a pad a night,
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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I'm assuming you live in the USA. Yes, the police can do something about it. You may get into some trouble if you're a minor but besides that the police is your best option.
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So I've been with my boyfriend for awhile and I'm not afraid to touch his penis but I don't like him touching me down there for some reason idk if it's just because I'm embarrassed about getting wet or what but plz help! (link)
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It's not something that you get comfortable with over night. Regardless of how long you've been with your boyfriend there's nothing wrong with feeling a little embarrassed when being intimate, there are some things you may never be comfortable with. As to why you don't feel comfortable; I can't answer that. Just know there's nothing wrong with it and it may take time.
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I am a 22 yr. old female who lives on her own in the US. I rent and live with my boyfriend of three and a half years. The guy I’ve been with has put me through hell in the last three years we have been together but I stuck by his side fearing that I would be alone. He has abandoned me several times even on our anniversary and I know deep down I deserve better. I go to school PT and I work FT. To give you a vague idea of what life has been like for me, I do everything- tend to his needs, clean up after him because he won’t clean up at all, buy all the food, he treats me poorly- has no consideration for my feelings at all, doesn’t acknowledge anything that I do, is jealous that I’ve got a better job than him, refuses to work FT, won’t help out at all around the house without complaining about it, he has no interest completing his college education, and now he’s asking his job to cut back his hours so he can play card games all day. I’ve asked him nicely to pursue counseling, offered to pursue counseling with him as a couple, and he is being stubborn about it. He thinks he doesn’t need it at all. He has been talking lately about quitting his job because he doesn’t want to be work for retail all his life, and recently, dropped the only class he was taking at college. He has Asperger’s so he sees the world a bit differently than you and I, but I’ll be damned, he’s very manipulative and super quick to create conflict if things do not go his way.
That said, I’m in a pickle and I’m growing very unhappy with him. My heart genuinely loves and cares about him and his overall well being but am I in love with him? I don’t think so. We don’t connect like we used to, I am not attracted to him anymore (been over a year since we’ve done anything sexual), and I do a lot of things on my own. I feel like he’s my child literally. Because his name is on the lease, I am reluctant to say how I really feel because I am worried it would create a mess of problems that I do not need at this time. I have been saving up for a down-payment on a house of my own and I’m very close to being able to get one. My goal is to drop him when the lease is up if things do not get better.
As silly as it is going to sound, I think I have found someone who I really enjoy talking to. I met him through eBay of all the places but we immediately clicked. We like almost all of the same things and we can talk non-stop for six hours. We have so much to relate to it isn’t even funny. He is attractive, a bit older, and he happens to live in Arkansas, which is very far away from New York, but I guess it could be worse. We are discussing meeting sometime this year presumably if all goes well. He seems like my other half and I get very giddy when I hear from him (sometimes anyway). Although I don’t know him as well as I would like to, I do have a strong gravitation towards this person and I’m not fully sure why exactly. Maybe it is because we are so alike. He is a college graduate and has been a dept manager at a retail store for five years. He was studying graphic design and has even done a few book covers for local authors. I find it impressive that he has done so much at his age. If you believe in Astrology, his sign is Gemini (air) and I am Leo (fire), it says we are highly compatible. He is highly skilled in many areas including photography and art. I could go on and on about how wonderful this guy is but I’ll stop it right there.
Anyways, I told him my disposition with my boyfriend a few months back and recently told him how I started feeling about him. I was scared to bring the topic up mainly because I wasn’t sure if he felt the same way but I also did not want there to be a relationship between him & I- at least not until I have successfully ended the relationship I am currently in and after he and I have met in person first. The more I have talked to him, the more I feel like I am falling for this person, but I will say this feeling comes and goes and fades away when he isn’t talking to me as much. I think I take it personal or something, assuming it’ll never happen and that he is not interested anymore. It sucks having a pessimistic mind. There have been spouts where this person just disappears for days and I grow concerned, I don’t understand why it happens and when I try to reach out, I don’t get any response back. He tells me there is something there for me but has forgotten the feeling of love. If you are genuinely interested in someone, you don’t do that to the person who has feelings for you.
Maybe my thinking is off or I’m taking way too much to heart so soon when I hardly even know this person. It has been a while since he has been in a relationship and while he has forgotten the feeling, what do you think this feeling could be? Did he just say that because he did not know what to say? Anyways, I can understand being busy but at least tell the person you are interested in or who is interested in you what is going on in your life so they know you are OK. If I stop talking to him, he does try to initiate conversations which confuse me. It seems the more attention I give him the more he runs away but the less I give, the more he comes back for more. He will on occasion send me text messages in the morning or call randomly to chat. And no matter how much that guy is on my mind or not, I do dream of meeting him when I am asleep even if he hasn’t been on my mind at all. I sometimes smile myself to sleep when I’ve talked to him and had a great conversation. But in these dreams, I am subconsciously trying to hide it away from my current relationship. I guess the conscious is playing a part. I’ve had maybe 2 or 3 dreams where I’ve come close to telling the person I am with now about this guy. I don’t believe in cheating and that is why I am stuck, I can’t move on until the relationship I am with is done entirely, but it seems I’ve felt alone for so long my heart is ready to love again. I’m worried of the situation altogether backfiring. I don’t know what to do. Do I have genuine feelings for this guy? Is this just a crush? Will it subside? Am I a complete nut-case? Am I putting things in my head that should not be there? Should I just stop talking to this person or view him more as a friend? What would you do in my shoes?
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Disregarding this new guy at the moment, if your current relationship doesn't get better then you should move on with your life; that part is clear enough with or without this new guy. With the whole new guy situation, meet him- it couldn't hurt. But don't move on with your heart set on the new guy. So give this guy a chance, and if it doesn't work out then you'll be upset but at least you haven't planned anything around him. Keep in contact but get out of your current situation before entering a new one. Hope this helped :)
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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Is your face in the picture? If not just let him do it. But if not go to the police, I don't know about Hungary but in the USA it's illegal if you're a minor.
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So I'm a 21 year-old male and still have never had sex. I know it may not seem like a big deal, but the thing is I just started school at a university that is known as a "party school" where there is a lot of casual sex going around and many hot girls. I just kinda feel pressured to get into the whole party scene and the casual sex thing, but I'm really kind of an introvert. I am not bad looking or anything (average weight/average heigh), but I can't say that I'm the smoothest guy out there. I live away from campus and dont really get the chance to be around people that much. I just feel like everyone else is just having sex with random people but I feel like i need to do it with someone whom I'm in love with. (it sounds kinda lame) but i dont know, there are different parts of me that doesnt know what to think. Is this something I should be worried about? I just feel pressured and kinda like a loser for not having done it yet, especially when I am in college. Any advice would be helpful. (link)
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Wait for someone you love. For me it\'s as simple as that, my boyfriend was my first and most likely my last. We\'ve spoken before and he wishes now that he would have waited. As for feeling pressured- you know what you want in life, and if casual sex isn\'t one of them then don\'t do it. It doesn\'t matter what anyone thinks.
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Hello I'm 13.I was in Canada for the whole month of July becuase my grandmother died. I had to stay with my older cousin and fianse.
Well the night when my family found out my grandma died, my cousin went to bed really early.My cousin's fianse invited his friend over.The bad
stuff started to happen when I was watching TV.They sat down next to me and my cousin's fianse asked do you like me?I said yes. I thought my cousin and him were perfect for eachother.His friend moved closer to me,I started to feel uneasy.Then the next thing I know his friend starts touching me.I got scared so.I say i'm going to bed so I go upstairs and after I finished brushing my teeth I go to my room and I find them in there.I tell them to leave and his friend says aw the fun hasn't started yet.I say leave.Then his friend says SHUTUP B***** WE LEAVE WHEN WE WANT TO LEAVE.His friend pushed me on my bed and he goes on top of me.At that point I was really scared.He literly ripped off my shirt then he took off my pants.I was ready to scream when my cousin's fianse puts his hand over my mouth.Then that night I was forced to have oral, anal, and viginal sex with both of them after they were done his friend punched me in the stomach and said if I ever told anyone he would kill me.That night I cried myself to sleep.The next morning I couldn't even look at my cousin's fianse.He kept telling me he was sorry but I don't forgive him.I want to call the police,but i'm to scared.What am I supposed to do?
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Hun, this was rape. You need to report it. Tell your cousin, and your parents.
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Its hard for me to drag the computer mouse to copy and paste. sometimes I have to keep dragging it over words to copy and paste. Where do I go to in my computer so it can be easier to copy and paste?
Sometimes when I try to click on things, I have to keep clicking on it until It finally pops up, how can I fix that? (link)
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It may be your mouse that is causing the difficulties. Try getting a new one,
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Does a hicky show up right after u kissed ages 12 to 11 (link)
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Hickeys are a bruise from someone sucking and biting somewhere on your body. You don't get it from kissing someone on the cheek or lips
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my bf want s sex i'm12 year old girl and he's 16 i'm not ready he would touch me and kiss my kneck. I would say stop but would say babe relax. i say stop he says ok but he always bugs me about sex and once he tried to take off my shirt. i love him but not sexually. what should i do?
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Im going to tell you now that because hes that much older than you. That hes using you /for/ sex. usually about that time the girls decide that they've had enough of the boys in there own grade trying to hit on them and have sex. So the boys move onto the younger naive girls who fall for it. Its good that you keep saying no. And you should continue to.
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I HATE MY LIFE ! 13 yr old girl. Okay soooo all of my relationship questions have been about the same guy . Well we went out 3 times the 3rd time i broke up with him and i am a dumb ass for doing that ! And i realize that i cant be without him and i am trying not o pick up a knife and cut my arm up but truthfully thats where im headed i need advice as soon as possible ! Can someone just tell me what to do please im on my last thread of string :( (link)
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Hun. Im 13. And im not that dramatic over a boy. You broke up with him, big deal. Cutting or killing yourself over this would be very, VERY Stupid. Seriously. Just get over him. You've went out 3 separate times. your two are bound to break up again.
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Hi I'm 10 Years old and I started my period...
How do I tell my mom? (link)
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You say."Mom i started my period" There's nothing wrong or bad with it. Its completely normal
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In your personal opinion, do you belive it's ok for a 13 year old girl who is trustworthy and gets excellent grade to have a boyfriend? (link)
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Of course. Having a boyfriend is just part of the growing experience.
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There is this guy and he is one of my really close friends,lets call him J, and he always talks/tells secrets to me and everyone thinks he likes me and so do i and one of my/his friends,lets call him B, asked me if i liked him and i said i like one person and i trust B so i told B i liked J and he asked me if J would ever ask me out would i say yes and i said yes and then B asked me if another one of my/our close friends, lets call him D, asked me out would i say yes and i was like ummmmmmmmm and i did like D a little bit and B waz like ohhhhhhhh you like D 2 and i was like jus a little bit and then B asked if he could tell one of our friends, lets call him P, and i said no but then he talked me into it so i said yes and the next day at school he asked if B could tell one of our other friends, lets call him F and we r all in a close friends group, and once again B talked me into it so he tolled F and later at lunch somehow everyone in our group heard bout it but not that i liked J and a little D and months before that me, D and J made a deal where we tell each other our secrets and in the lunchtime i was talking bout D came up to me and was like remember the deal we made were we tell each other our secrets and i was like ohhhhhhhhhhh so i let B tell D and then J really wanted to know and i was like but it would be awkward if u knew and B kept saying it wouldn't and J kept asking so after a while i just got B to tell J and J was like that isn't awkward and i dont mind and its ok because people like people and other people like other people then J was like i like emma and not me and that broke my heart because me and my friends really thought he liked me and i am in love with J and only sorta like D and it isn't strange around J or D but i am really sad he doesn't like me and cant get over it quick and easy because he is 1 of my best friends and see him everyday.
Plz help......!!!!!!
p.s i am in love. (link)
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Your not in love..... This is just a simple crush. If someone asks you just causally say yeah. Not uhm, or maybe. And you can't have both 'J' and 'D'. pick one or the other.
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My mom always finds a way to get pissed off with me even when I'm upset. She thinks that i'm too dramatic and vain (which is pretty normal for a teen like me). I try to tone things down around her, but she still finds things that I do wrong. She never even tries to understand me even when her sisters do. Am I being ridiculous about this or should she try to be more sympathetic and understanding?
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I know exactly how you feel. My guardian says everything to make me mad. Your mother should be the one who's understanding. There's nothing i've been able to do except try an ignore it... Which is hard, but it might work for you
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Let me first start by explaining the situation. I am almost 29 years old. When I was 24, I met my kids father. We instantly fell in love and were married. 3 months later. Not the best thing I couldv'e done, but I can't change it now. Anyhow long story short. Husband was in the Navy at the time and came to live w me at my parents house which was suposed to be temporary, but ended up being permanent, as he proved to be immature and a frivolous spender, even though I had a baby his priorities didn't change. We could never move out because we could never save money. I ended up divorcing him. Now I'm planning on using my next tax refund to go towards the moving costs, and what not. My issue is that my dad and my 3 yr old son are very close. I'm not sure how to introduce the idea of us moving out to my son and make him understand and accept it. I know he's going to have a hard time. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to do this? (link)
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Well, explain it in a childish way. That mommy and him get to move into a house (or appartment) of your own.He can decorate his room how he wants, and he'll still be able to see his grandpa. He'll have to ease into the idea. but its really all you can do
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