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my cousins fianse
Hello I'm 13.I was in Canada for the whole month of July becuase my grandmother died. I had to stay with my older cousin and fianse.
Well the night when my family found out my grandma died, my cousin went to bed really early.My cousin's fianse invited his friend over.The bad
stuff started to happen when I was watching TV.They sat down next to me and my cousin's fianse asked do you like me?I said yes. I thought my cousin and him were perfect for eachother.His friend moved closer to me,I started to feel uneasy.Then the next thing I know his friend starts touching me.I got scared so.I say i'm going to bed so I go upstairs and after I finished brushing my teeth I go to my room and I find them in there.I tell them to leave and his friend says aw the fun hasn't started yet.I say leave.Then his friend says SHUTUP B***** WE LEAVE WHEN WE WANT TO LEAVE.His friend pushed me on my bed and he goes on top of me.At that point I was really scared.He literly ripped off my shirt then he took off my pants.I was ready to scream when my cousin's fianse puts his hand over my mouth.Then that night I was forced to have oral, anal, and viginal sex with both of them after they were done his friend punched me in the stomach and said if I ever told anyone he would kill me.That night I cried myself to sleep.The next morning I couldn't even look at my cousin's fianse.He kept telling me he was sorry but I don't forgive him.I want to call the police,but i'm to scared.What am I supposed to do?
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Honey I'm so sorry this happened to you. That is absolutely awful! You cannot let them get away with doing this to you. If you're afraid to tell someone about it because his friend said he would kill you I wouldn't worry about that. He will most likely be in jail and probably never see you again. They're trying to intimidate you because you're young and I understand you being afraid but you can't suffer in silence. Please, please tell someone! This could effect you emotionally for the rest of your life and not telling a trusted adult about this could make the effects on you ten times worse.
This is wrong on so many levels. Anyone that would do this does not deserve to not be punished and definitely doesn't deserve to marry your cousin. I don't know if you're still staying at your cousins but if you are try and find another relative you can stay with in Canada until you go back home. If there's no other family for you to turn to there and you're afraid that you're going to tell the police and then have to continue staying at your cousins then wait until you get home. But the best thing for you to do would be to call a trusted adult and ask them to come pick you up (if you're still at your cousins) it's not safe for you to be there. Also, you need to be checked out by a doctor as soon as possible.
Please take all of our advice and tell someone. You'll be in my prayers.
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Sweetheart you were RAPED for which I am very sorry this happened to you. You need to report this to the police and your parents. Your cousins fiance is a co-conspirator and just as guilty by helping his friend and not trying to stop him.
I would also like you to contact an organization called RAINN. RAINN stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. They operate a 24/7 hotline to help girls like you. The number is 1-800-656-HOPE.
The volunteers who man the phones are trained to help you and to help you find people in your own community who can help you. You can't pretend the Rape didn't happen. What you can do is learn how to properly deal with this and move on with your life and not have this ruin the rest of your life.
The people who RAINN connects you with will be with you every step of the way in reporting this to the police. I'm also sure that the people who answer the phone can help you tell your parents if need be.
Please call RAINN. Don't let this ruin your life. Don't let your cousin marry a Rapist. Most of all by reporting this you will save another young girl from being raped.
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Hun, this was rape. You need to report it. Tell your cousin, and your parents.
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You were raped, You need to report it to the police and tell an adult you trust.
This is WRONG, They took full advantage of you and raped you. I would tell your cousin everything you told us above, Report it too the police and tell your parents about what happened.
I highly suggest you seek therapy and counseling to help you cope.
Yes, You need report it
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