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This morning i was laying in my bed in nothing but my bra and panties, waiting for my boyfriend to get home. All of a sudden, my male golden retreiver came up to me while I had my legs opened, started sniffing me down there, and began humping me. I felt the penetration and afterwards saw alot of dog sperm all over me and my sheets. Is it normal for him to do that and is it ok? Also, can I get pregnant because of this incident?
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Ummm yes its normal for a dog to hump things (furniture, animals, people etc.) But not really normal for you to let him...
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i am 18...my girlfriend is 16... we started having unprotected sex on july 27th.... since then we have had sex on AUG 4th,22nd,26th sept 5th and 6th... she found out she was pregnant last month...this is going in 9months into our relationship...i love her alot.... she is scared to talk to her mom... i have already told my dad... yet she is thinking of lifting soething heavy to killl the formation of the baby... i feel really bad...what should we do? (link)
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Wow, that's horrible. You're girlfriend is more likely to hurt herself than the baby by doing this. The reason that women aren't suppose to do heavy lifting while they're pregnant is because their ligaments are very loose during pregnancy so they can easily hurt themselves.
Regardless, its NOT ok for your girlfriend to try to give herself an "at home" abortion or miscarriage or whatever you want to call it. She needs to be seen by a doctor to discuss her options. Because she is over 14 she should be able to seek medical help without the consent of her parents, I believe. Please don't let her do this. That's your baby too and you have a say in what happens to it.
She really should tell her mother but if she refuses please ask your father to help guide you both in figuring out all your options. Like I already said though, please tell her to go to the doctor right away to have an exam. Don't let her hurt herself.
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Hey sorry to bother you again, youve answered questions about my ex bf that I dated for 2 years. Well now hes tagged in all these pictures with this girl and hes like laying in bed witjout a shirt. I just feel horrible and replaced. I have guys that pay attention to me but I still cant stop thinking about.him. :/ I feel pathetic and like im never gonna find someone that I love as much as him. I cant get over it. I wasnt happy in the relationship but I feel worse out of it :( o really thought hed come back one day. I guess im just looking foranything cause right now I just really really want this pain to end :/ I really really wish that I was more important to him and that hed try to win me back. I feel like im so easily replaced :/ I dont want to be sad anymoree.
And to make things worse, this guy thats a real genuine guy wants to come visit me. I want like something casual but I dont want to make myself worse..he got out of a long relationahip a few months ago and he really is an amazing guy but I cant stop thinking about my ex. I really want him to try hard to win me back :( please help I feel horrible (link)
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\'m glad you wrote me, i\'ve been thinking about how you\'re doing since i answered your last question.
ok, first of all this guy is a total asshole!! he\'s playing with your head soooo bad. i can almost guarantee you that he tagged those pictures (or had someone tag him) just so you would see them and to give you the impression \"fine, you want to break it off with me?! i\'ll show you how easily you can be replaced!\" he has not replaced you. he\'s trying to make you feel like crap and unfortunately its working. he is obviously extremely insecure. the fact that he treated you like you were so disposable when you were together and then says to you \"well maybe we can be together in like a year\" speaks volumes about how insecure he is. he loved the fact that he always knew you would text him and chase him especially if he ignored you. it made him feel important. then you finally work up the nerve to dump this loser and he agrees with everything you say (because he can\'t believe you\'re standing up for yourself) and says that maybe you guys can be together in a year, like he\'s doing you a favor?! ugh this guy is a total tool its making me angry, haha. do not comment on those pictures on facebook!! don\'t text him about them, don\'t private message him, don\'t say a word! it will make him crazy!! what the hell kind of guy is in a relationship with a girl for 2 years and 2-3 days after the relationship ends he posts pictures of him hanging out with some other girl?? a total selfish asshole that doesn\'t deserve you! if this kid cared about your feelings at all (besides trying to make you regret breaking up w/ him) he would never post pictures like that so soon after breaking up especially knowing how fragile you are. he did not replace you he\'s just trying to make you think he did. you are not replaceable!!
i was in a very long relationship with a guy for 5 years and i let him treat me like total crap. when we broke up i was a mess, even though i broke up with him. he went out and was having all kinds of fun and i was at home crying in my bed. but come to find out (after not talking for years) he was totally devastated over our break up and that was his way of coping, acting like i meant nothing to him. he always said that he went out so much because he couldn\'t stand to be by himself because all he would do would think of me. i never got back together with this guy just so you know.
as far as this other guy that wants to take you out, he\'s knows what its like to just be getting out of a long term relationship so don\'t be afraid to say to him \"i\'m still feeling unsteady and hurt by my last relationship so i\'m not looking for anything serious right now but would love to get to know you better and hang out a bit\" be completely honest with him so that there are no expectations. he will understand.
there is no easy way to get over a break up especially when your ex is acting like such a jerk. this guy does not deserve you and is doing anything and everything to continue hurting you. that is not love. you sound like such a sweet girl and there are amazing guys out there that deserve such a devoted girl like you and you deserve someone that appreciates you. you will get over this in time and sooner or later you will think \"what the hell was i thinking wasting so much time on that loser?!\". i have been in your shoes and i\'m telling you that day will come. i know its going to be hard but you should unfriend your ex on facebook or your going to be stalking his page constantly and he\'s going to know that so he\'s going to continue to try to hurt you. please take my advice. i really feel for you and i really mean it when i say you can write to me whenever you want. you\'re not \"bothering\" me. i know how it feels to not be able to talk to your friends about this guys because they\'re fed up and would probably be upset to know your still hungup on him. please keep me posted
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Hello I'm 13.I was in Canada for the whole month of July becuase my grandmother died. I had to stay with my older cousin and fianse.
Well the night when my family found out my grandma died, my cousin went to bed really early.My cousin's fianse invited his friend over.The bad
stuff started to happen when I was watching TV.They sat down next to me and my cousin's fianse asked do you like me?I said yes. I thought my cousin and him were perfect for eachother.His friend moved closer to me,I started to feel uneasy.Then the next thing I know his friend starts touching me.I got scared so.I say i'm going to bed so I go upstairs and after I finished brushing my teeth I go to my room and I find them in there.I tell them to leave and his friend says aw the fun hasn't started yet.I say leave.Then his friend says SHUTUP B***** WE LEAVE WHEN WE WANT TO LEAVE.His friend pushed me on my bed and he goes on top of me.At that point I was really scared.He literly ripped off my shirt then he took off my pants.I was ready to scream when my cousin's fianse puts his hand over my mouth.Then that night I was forced to have oral, anal, and viginal sex with both of them after they were done his friend punched me in the stomach and said if I ever told anyone he would kill me.That night I cried myself to sleep.The next morning I couldn't even look at my cousin's fianse.He kept telling me he was sorry but I don't forgive him.I want to call the police,but i'm to scared.What am I supposed to do?
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Honey I'm so sorry this happened to you. That is absolutely awful! You cannot let them get away with doing this to you. If you're afraid to tell someone about it because his friend said he would kill you I wouldn't worry about that. He will most likely be in jail and probably never see you again. They're trying to intimidate you because you're young and I understand you being afraid but you can't suffer in silence. Please, please tell someone! This could effect you emotionally for the rest of your life and not telling a trusted adult about this could make the effects on you ten times worse.
This is wrong on so many levels. Anyone that would do this does not deserve to not be punished and definitely doesn't deserve to marry your cousin. I don't know if you're still staying at your cousins but if you are try and find another relative you can stay with in Canada until you go back home. If there's no other family for you to turn to there and you're afraid that you're going to tell the police and then have to continue staying at your cousins then wait until you get home. But the best thing for you to do would be to call a trusted adult and ask them to come pick you up (if you're still at your cousins) it's not safe for you to be there. Also, you need to be checked out by a doctor as soon as possible.
Please take all of our advice and tell someone. You'll be in my prayers.
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Me and my boyfriend just broke up because I couldnt seem to feel secure in the relationship and he just wasnt making me happy anymore.
Ive never felt so bad though :/ like i honestly think i might be going into depression. I broke it off last night but I cried a lot and he just kept agreeing and saying we werent meant to be right now. He did say that he really wanted to date me in a year when he wasnt so focused on school and boxing. (It was long distance) I just feel so hurt and like none of our 2 years was real :{ I guess im asking for help and advice on how to get over this. im in a really bad place and I dont want to feel this pathetic and sad for too long. Do you guys think he really means it when he says he wants to be with me in the future? (link)
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I'm glad that you were the one to initiate the break up. You're doing the right thing (I read your previous story asking for advice about what to do w/ the relationship). There is no easy way to get over a break up especially when you've been together for 2 years. You're going to be sad for a while but keep yourself busy with your friends and as time goes on it will get easier. You should get yourself all prettied-up and go out with your girlfriends. You sound like a really sweet girl and I'm sure guys will be lining up for a chance to get to know you. Even though you probably won't be ready to date for a while getting attention from other men reminds you that there are other people out there and that the end of this relationship does not mean the end of your love life.
No one knows besides your ex if he meant it when he said he would like to date you in a year. However, some guys say that just to ease the blow of the break up, and sometimes the really big jerks say it to give you false hope because they know it may prevent you from seeing other people in case your ex decides that he wants to get back together with you. Don't do that. Don't not put yourself out there and maybe miss the chance of falling in love because you're holding onto false hope that he'll want to get back together with you someday. In my opinion it wasn't really fair of him to say that to you. He obviously knows how loyal you are and how badly you wanted the relationship to work so its really unfair for him to give you the idea that maybe he'll decide he wants to be a real boyfriend when its convenient for him. Just know that you deserve better and when its real love a guy will walk through fire to be with you and will do everything in his power to make it work. Please move on. You will find a guy that is crazy about you and treats you like you deserve to be treated. If you ever want to message me I would be more then happy to talk to you, I really mean that.
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i got home oe day to find blood on my sheets and blood stained panties that arent mine. i asked my boyfriend if he had sex with another girl and he told me no. should i believe him or not. (link)
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Umm oh my god and ewww! Its almost like he's trying to get caught! Why the hell would he not check the sheets afterwards!? If you two are the only people that live in that house and no one else has been there all signs point to him!. That's so messed up, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Dump him! If you're not totally convinced that he cheated then you need to start doing some serious investigating. Check his cell phone while he's in the shower or sleeping or something, check his Facebook (if you have access to his account) and most importantly DO NOT have unprotected sex with him! Cheating is bad enough but giving you an STD because of it...yikes! Good luck girl and don't let him make you look like a fool.
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Period 15 days late, only lasted like 4 and a half days, now a yellow discharge that has a little odor to it? Not pregnant though, never had sex. Any idea what this could be? (link)
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Small amounts of discharge are pretty normal so don't get yourself to freaked out. I agree that it could be a mild yeast infection. Take some warm baking sodas baths (add about 2tbsp. Of baking soda to warm bath water) and soak in the tub for a while. If the discharge worsens or if it becomes itchy you should see your gyno. It could still be a yeast infection but you may need a prescription to get rid of it. I wouldn't be too worried :)
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Okay so lately me and my ex boyfriend(we are basically back together but I keep telling him no because my family or friends arent ready to accept him back into my life) have been growing kinda distant. Its not my doing and Ive been getting really emotional over it all. He just moved a few states away but weve done long distance for more than a year. Its like the more I try the less he does. He still says he loves me and wants to be with me for a really long time but im just not feeling the love really. He says its all in my head and nothing is wrong but I just dont know. For example, last night I tried talkiing to him about it and telling him that I was upset and asked if we should see other people. He was like do whatever you want. And I got upset and was like wow do you even care if I leave? And he said that he does and he still loves me but hes tired of me asking the same question over and over. But he doesnt call very much and barely texts me back. I know hes always been bad with the phone but we are back to long distance so he should be dying to talk to me like before. What Im scared of is pushing him away by being too clingy but I dont want him to forget about me either. If anyone knows a way that I could win over his heart again or feel better about this because maybe it really is in my head. I mean it is the first few days of him living away from home but when I first moved away last year I loved talking to him and telling him about my adventures.
Another problem is that I feel completely dependent on him. I really want to fix it. It might be the main reason we are fighting...because I keep wanting more and more. I just really want to be loved and feel like I still make him happy. Hes so focused on boxing and stuff that he seems to always be too tired for me. I know for a fact he isnt cheating on me because hes not the type at all. I really want to feel okay and not so freaking pathetic without him. Please someone help me and give me some good advice about all of this. I dont want to lose him but I dont want to keep being upset. (link)
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Ok so clearly you are feeling very insecure in this relationship. People being clingy can obviously be annoying BUT your BF seems like he could care less about helping you resolve any of your issues regarding your relationship. In my honest opinion if he really wanted to be with you he would do anything and everything within his power to ease your fears. All he has to do is call you and reply to your texts and he can't even do that? It sounds like you're always begging him to reassure you that everything is ok and he may TELL you that it is but he is doing nothing to prove it. Stability and to know that someone truly wants to be with you are not things you should constantly have question. But since you are, he should be going above and beyond to show you he loves you just as much as you love him. He sounds like a jerk and it kind of sounds like your willingly being his doormat. Considering that you said your family and friends aren't ready to except him back in their lives again sounds like they think he treats you like crap..? Just a guess. Being insecure is extremely unattractive and men especially don't like their women insecure. This might sound harsh but if you haven't already I feel like you may become that girl that no matter what he does to you or how badly he treats you, you still stick around. Girls like that usually become a joke amongst him and his buddies.
I know its hard but you need to stop! Stop calling, stop texting, stop everything. He'll start to wonder what you're up to. If you want him to miss you and make him realize what he has you need to give him the space to do so. Keep yourself busy to try to keep your mind off of him. If he really cares about you he'll reach out to you and if he doesn't then there's your answer. You do not need to beg for a man to give you the attention you deserve. The longer this goes on the more you're self esteem is going to dwindle away. I'm sorry about the novel I wrote you but I just really feel for you. You deserve better. Let me know how it goes.
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Hi everyone!
I want to change my hair and dye it red. I've had it a kind of dark red-brown before and purple which I've liked.
My current skin tone is a light olive. My natural hair colour is mousy brown and my eyes are a darker, chocolatey brown. I was thinking a slightly darker red, like an auburn, or even a burgundy.
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Ok so first of all what color is your hair currently? If you're hair is really dark and the red color you want to use is lighter then the shade you are now it won't really work. When coloring hair you cannot go to a lighter shade then your hair currently is. If you're hair is currently dark, the red will deposit in your hair but may not be as vibrant as you hoped.
Also, I read the other answer that someone wrote you, bleaching your hair and then immediately coloring it red is absolutely not going to work. If it doesn't turn orange immediately you'd be very lucky but if any of the red actually holds in the bleached hair, it will be orange within a shampoo or two. When someones hair is bleached and they want to color it red, natural colors need to be deposited back into the hair first. such as golds, copper, cool tones etc. (All of the natural undertones that have been bleached out) you should not just throw red color on bleached hair.
I just wanted to add that if you do color your hair red you should get special shampoo and conditioner to help maintain the color. Salon products can be pretty pricey but you should be able to find a brand at your local drug or grocery store called "John Fredia". His products are awesome. They make a shampoo & conditioner called "Radiant Red" and it will definitely help maintain the red and make it more vibrant. Its a little more pricey then the average but well worth it.
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what should i do if my mum calls me stupid should i run away from home? (link)
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No, you should not run away from home. Being called stupid by your mum is not very nice but it's certainly not a reason to run away from home. Things could be a lot worse. If she is constantly being verbally or physically abusive to you, you should talk with a counselor. I don't know how old you are but I'm assuming you're pretty young. Maybe between 12-15? No one wants to be called stupid especially by someone who is suppose to protect them. A little more information about the relationship between you and your mum would definitely be more helpful as to how to tell you to handle this...how often does she put you down? Is she abusing you physically?
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