Question Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 7:59 pm
There is this junior in my drama class and he is so cute, and I'm a freshman. I caught him looking at me a lot once. But I don't think it meant anything at all. My lines in are play are directed to him... and it's a really nasty pickup line (out of the subject). Do you think that there is any possibility that he likes me? I mean I guess that I'm pretty attractive and I talked to him once.
Dragonflymagic answered Saturday September 20 2014, 11:07 pm: If in drama is the only time you find him looking at you at lot, I wouldn't expect it means anything. If however he does that no matter where, no matter when, then it is one of the signs that someone is interested in another. Are you interested in finding out because you have in interest in him? If so, waiting for him to show other signs of liking you may not happen since he may feel intimidated since you're a year older. Hey I'm a year older than my husband. It really doesn't matter, even if other people think its weird or wrong.
Other signs that someone likes you, is saying Hi and smiling every time they see you, and finding excuses to get near you to sit by you or stand near you. The bolder ones will find ways to touch you too, such as a playful punch on the arm, giving you a pat on the back for acing a test, tucking a lock of your hair behind your ear, that sort of stuff.
So if you are interested, show him the same signs, it works both ways, say Hello to him and use his name when you see him and smile a lot. And then step it up by starting conversation with him. If he has a teacher you had last year, you could ask how he likes that teacher and mention you had them and find other things to talk about related to school and then ask him questions like what his favorite music is, or type of movies he likes. Find reasons to be near him, as for touch, you can always pretend to be picking an eyelash off his cheek if you can't think of another innocent way to touch. If he doesn't get the message from all that and ask you to hang out with him, then you can do that. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
CLN answered Saturday September 20 2014, 8:39 pm: He probably do but you know a lot of times in high school juniors don't date freshman same as seniors but idk age is just a number if he likes you he likes you so just continue to talk to him and if it's something there it will come out sooner or later plus it's not like he's grown he's a kid just like you.... Let me add that most of the time people don't date under their grade level because they are afraid of what people will think or say but forget them other people love is love crush is a crush I say take a chance you never know what will happen if something good that's great but if something bad we learn from are mistakes good luck. [ CLN's advice column | Ask CLN A Question ]
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