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For example I like the Hunger Games but I just feel that they're in an arena killing each other and then getting opressed the fuck out of in districts and trying to fight against the gov. so why are they falling in love. I haven't read the 5th wave but from what I've heard, they're living in a dystopian society where mayhem is happening the girl is trying to find her brother yet she somehow has room in her mind to fall in love. I like the Divergent series bu why in the world would Tris and Tobius be making out every 2 pages when they are trying to remove an entire system. I feel like if you had that much going on and your life is in danger it's unrealistic. It's so unnecessary and pointless. Like a book will be all "oh no aliens are running around everywhere my whole family has the plaque and there is a war. Better get in that boy's pants." Don't get me wrong, sometimes they make sense. For example I read Harry Potter. Voldemort didn't attack till the end of the year and throughout the year when bad stuff was happening there was still room for things to not be messed up. In the Percy Jackson series there were times where they could interact without worrying about Kronos or Gaia or some pissed off God/Goddess. Even then, couples had to take reasonable amounts of time to develop. For example, Nico had to become more open and start being more outgoing and less intimidating to start making friendships and then eventually date Will. Percy and Annabeth had to go through hell and back-literally before they got to know each other well enough and start dating. I just feel sometimes romance is not necessary for a book but it's always squeezed-and pulled, pushed, and forced-into the plot. Why? (link)
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I'm so glad I'm not the only one that thinks its complete bull. unfortunately it's because these authors think that they need to include that in order to sell, and sadly they're right. People love the idea of love and sex and romance sells. Its sad, I know.
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how to pop fest (link)
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I have no idea, just go and have fun
http://nycpopfest.org/
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Are there any good products or hairstyles for curly hair? Any good youtubers who have curly hair? Thanks! (link)
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Depends how curly you're talking about. If you mean kinky hair, like kinky curly then Naptural85 is bae. She's my life saver, my hair is just like hers.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbSOwGvl5sU
If you are talking just loose curls, then just
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sv-QY2y2nzE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UH3T6fD1Cv4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwajtdNZuiM
HeyFranHey, Chime(HairCrush)
Those are just a few. There are so many women you can (and I have learned) learn from.
Have fun.
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My friend and I just fought over something that happened weeks ago. Apparently she never let it go and felt she had to bring it up again. She won't leave me alone and keeps texting me about it and I'm getting sick of it. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her how you feel and make sure you dont raise your voice and get angry, and PLEASE make sure you do this in person, it's the best, most effective way to solve most problems
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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It really depends on you. Do you feel like a virgin?
sex is defined differently by everyone, for example some people consider themselves virgins until they have had sex with someone they're in love with(this is me), some people it's oral, others think it's anal, for some people it's only sex with the opposite sex that "counts". So if you feel like you are a virgin, you are one. It depends on what you think qualifies as losing your virginity. No one can tell you what you are
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If I listen to paramore and fall out boy what kind of music do I like? (link)
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Both of them are pop punk and Paramore is also alternative.
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I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
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I'm not even kidding right now. Just smile at everyone. Be extremely nice to everyone, spread love. When someone is angry with you, just smile and say ok. If someone even goes as far as to hit you, smile and then see if you can even hug them and say "it's okay." People will stop trying to make you feel bad. And be thankful for your boyfriend. He loves you, so find a way to be with him, and spend some time with him
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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Lol shouldn't have done it in the first place. These questions are funny lol
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I feel really good when I laugh and I love laughing. The problem is that I find almost nothing funny. A lot of people laugh when other people get hurt which is what most "funny videos" on youtube are about. And I honestly don't think they're funny ._. I also don't like most "funny" movies. Can anyone give me some ideas what I can watch? The only person I can think of that makes me laugh is ellen degeneres ._. (link)
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On YouTube, you can watch...
Tpindell
Our2ndlife
Danisnotonfire
Shane
Pewdiepie
Ilikeweylie
Ourpizzagang
Sdk
Mirandasings
Psychosoprano
Grav3yardgirl
Khalil underwood
Mazzimaz
Girlgonegamer
Tyler Oakley
Itskingsleybitch
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im sick and tired of Disney Channel airing that retarded show and it annoys me that Ross Lynch is getting popular when not many people are buying his stuff another thing hes gonna be in the next Muppet Movie and Disney Channel keeps airing newer episodes of Austin and Ally sooner or later they will have to cancel the show if you have any information on the final episode of Austin and Ally post me a link to it . (link)
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It's called Wikipedia. You should try it.
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Recently I've been feeling quite empty and I have cut myself on my leg with a razor. There's a lot of them. The problem is that my boyfriend is coming over in a couple of days and if he sees them he will flip, maybe even break up with me. Don't get me wrong, he's really understanding, but he thought I wouldn't be stupid enough to do it. Also I lied and told him that I wouldn't do it. I NEED to get rid of them NOW. Any suggestions as to what I can do? Bearing in mind these are fresh cuts and they they haven't yet started healing. Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks. (link)
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How about stop cutting? Ever thought of that?
There is NOTHING that could be happening to you that gives you the FUCKING excuse to even think about doing that stupid ass shit. You have a boyfriend, you can type, you have legs, you have the ability to grip objects, you have a place to live, oh and you're FUCKING BREATHING. Already, I know 6 reasons not to feel bad for yourself. Don't be a dumbass. Please. And tell your boyfriend about it. Better to be honest. He would be more mad if you hid it from him.
Good luck.
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Long story short-
I dated my ex (my first love)for more than 2 years, got engaged, were soon to be married , did crazy things together which i might never do with anyone else.Then we hit a bad patch. His family thought I was not good enough for him, etc.We broke up. He came back, I took him.He left to a different country, we continued to be in the relationship. In one year after he left, his behavior changed, he met new people, started ignoring me etc. I called it off. He comes back to me,asks me to marry him. He promised to behave himself,to come for me in a few months and get married. I gave it one more chance, he goes back, same old behaviour. Lied to me, ignored me etc. I called it off. And moved on.I Found someone and am getting married in a month. Now he is back again after an year, and is begging me to marry him. He seems like he has changed. The arrogance is gone, sends me texts all through the day and in the night trying to convince me.I am in a fix. I know my ex is all wrong, he will go back on his word .
The one I am going to marry now is a research scholar and all that, more mature, good nature d ,trustworthy, respects me, families are happy,but he is not as interesting, spontaneous, passionate as my ex.I respect him , but I am not as passionate about him as I was towards my ex. Will I regret my decision to marry him? I'm scared . What do I do? (link)
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If you're not in love with someone, do not marry them. I mean LOVE. Like you're crazy about him. And if you're not! Don't get married. That's just common sense, I mean, I'm not telling you to go back to your ex, you should never have to be in one of THOSE relationships, but you should NEVER marry someone you weren't crazy, head over heels, couldn't stand to be without him, about. I mean, come on. Sort out your feelings and figure out what it is that you want to do. Never do anything just because it's "easy". That, in the long run, is never easy. You'll get divorced and by then, someone who you could have met now would already be taken, if you get what I'm trying to say.
Good luck with whatever you choose,
Have a nice day :)
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My guy friend from school invited me over to his birthday party. I had a great time and he was being very social to everyone, asking if 'we' (me and my 3 friends) were ok and having a good time.
Then it was time for me to leave. I told him I had a very good time and said thanks for inviting me! Then he said 'that's good' then out of the blue said, i'll give you a hug and well, we hugged. I was shocked and just said 'ok'.
I cant remember how the hug was because I was in total shock! And this was the first time he hugged me and his parents were there watching and they looked surprised too!
After the hug I looked at the ground and said 'That was a little awkward...' and he said 'Yeah it was, wasn't it?' ONLY BECAUSE HE HUGGED ME FOR THE FIRST TIME! I said ok cya at school and he said the same and we went our separate ways.
What just happened? Can someone tell me? Was it a 'ok thanks for coming hug'? or something else...
Tomorrow I will ask my friend if she got a hug too. If she did I will know it was a 'thanks for coming hug', but what if she didn't get one?
What the heck does this mean? >_ (link)
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Oh my god, you sound 10 years old.
Maybe he just wanted to give you a hug for no reason? I don't know. Maybe. There doesn't always have to be a reason, us girls always look for the meaning of everything. Who cares. Just let it go.
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So me and my friends always end up never having a place to stay. We all like to hang out together & smoke sometimes but since we're all 18 and still living at home, our parents don't like the smoke in the house which is totally respectable. Anyways, we've been needin a place to chill (not a public place) and since it's winter we need to stay inside. we have NO idea what to do. Any suggestions? (link)
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Um. How about you stop smoking and play cards instead? It's what the COOL kids do. Go to a party planning place, and just play cards in the main entrance.
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Me and my boyfriend first started datin in jube but we broke up in july and then we got back together in october. So everytime I'm around him or in the same room, I get/ feel nervous. Why? (link)
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There is no valuable information in the question for me to even remotely understand what it is that you're asking. Please, add to the question.
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there's this girl who is my boyfriends best friend..whenever he chats with her he'll be online but he'll reply me a bit late(not always)..they were very good friends and mostly everyone thought that they liked each other.. i cant tolerate that girl..i have told him that i don't like her..but still they talk and my boyfriend is bit childish..i cant tolerate that girl..she doesn't like him but i don't like their closeness..it makes me insecure. he says that i'm the most important person to him but i don't feel so..what should i do.. (link)
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Respect the fact that she was there before you were. If you can't accept that, just leave. And if you really have actual feelings for him, (Which realistically, you don't, because this question wouldn't exist if you did.) you would just talk to him calmly about it like a normal person. Don't be the jealous girlfriend. It's not attractive at all. He will eventually leave you because of it, so nip it in the bud now before it gets worse.
Good luck.
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As the title says I'm always afraid that someone close to me will die. Whenever my boyfriends phone is off or he isn't answering I imagine him being in a terrible accident. Whenever he's late I think the same thing. Or I think he just dropped dead. The same thing goes for my mom when she doesn't answer the phone. I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had anyone close to me die or anything like that. I've never lost someone I love before so why is this always happening? Right now my boyfriends phone is off and it's probably because his battery is dead. He should be home by now but he's not which probably means that he just had to stay a little longer at work. But I'm still sitting here with an uncomfortable feeling in my stomach that something terrible happened. I actually thought about what I would say at his funeral. What can I do about this, it's driving me crazy :( (link)
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Ok, here we go:
As a 16 year old girl who faces negativity from her own family every day, I can tell you that you need to find a way to remind yourself that you aren't helping the situation. If you keep dwelling on something as horrible and traumatic as that, you might actually make it happen eventually. (the movie/book "The Secret" will thoroughly explain this for you) Then you'll feel horrible. So you need to train yourself to focus on positive things. Like the fact that you're close with your mother and that you have a boyfriend to come home to. Focus ENDLESSLY on the positive thoughts. Every morning, make a decision that there is nothing in existence on this beautiful earth that could possibly happen to you today to bring you down. Because you're alive and healthy enough to breathe and type. (I can't exactly assume the rest LOL) in fact, you should print out those words and put them somewhere where you'll see them every day, like your bathroom or refrigerator. Actually, if you want you could even frame these words and make them all pretty. I'm asking you to do all of this because if you keep going on like this, you might just make it happen. Don't let the thought of that scare you, either. Just know it and act on it.
I wish you the best of luck.
Have only happy days :)
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Hi, so I'm a 15 year old female. My boyfriend rescently went to another state for family issues. He was there for about a week, so we didn't get to see eachother alot, only talk. When he was there he started txting this girl that goes to our school. They sexted and sent nudes back and forth. We kinda went on a break because he claimed that he lost his feelings for me. When he got back we were still on a break/ broken up. He made out with the girl that he was sending nudes to. This was a couple months ago but I still can't let it go. It bothers me so much, were still together now, but he didn't tell me about all this, I had to find out about it. I have no trust in him whatsoever. I was wondering how I would be able to forget this, and regain my trust in him. Because he has moved on from it, I haven't.. And it really bothers me. Thanks (link)
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He obviously doesn't care bout you. Can't you see that? And of you're that uncomfortable, let him go. He lost feelings a long time ago, when he cheated on you with an easy catch, of all things. Dump him. You don't need that type of person in your life. Trust me.
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Well, I have a few social problems I'd like some tips on. See, I'm a very shy girl (21 years), I can handle making small talk but only if the other person initiates it, and I'm lacking in any real friends, managed to make a few friends but none who I'd call and say let's go out or whatever. In short, i just have no confidence. However, my boyfriend is the opposite, he'll go out and make several new friends straight away, everyone knows him and he isnt keen on taking me out with him anymore because all I do is stay by his side as opposed to doing my own thing as his ex did.
So, can you give me advice on how to approach a total stranger and make conversation with them? to feel confident in myself to do that and any little advice tips on how to not use my boyfriend as a lifeline per say, so I want him to be able to take me out and then not worry or not have his friends telling him he's left me by myself for a bit too long and I'm just looking lonely. Thanks :) (link)
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Ask your boyfriend. He seems like a confident person, and he could help you.
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i am 13 and i know it sounds dumb but i have had a crush on this guy for three years, anyway, i reay likehim ad idon't know if he likes me, sometimes i catch him looking over at me, we talk to each other alot and when i walk by his frieds always stare at me ad bug him. Does this mean he likes me? thanks in advance for your help :) (link)
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http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Uy-F-BbzxAM watch Mike Falzone
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