I have a huge crush on a guy i my class but im not sure if he likes me
Question Posted Monday May 13 2013, 8:06 pm
i am 13 and i know it sounds dumb but i have had a crush on this guy for three years, anyway, i reay likehim ad idon't know if he likes me, sometimes i catch him looking over at me, we talk to each other alot and when i walk by his frieds always stare at me ad bug him. Does this mean he likes me? thanks in advance for your help :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: What does it mean?? Tigz285 answered Tuesday July 9 2013, 7:05 pm: It doesn't sound dumb at all so don't worry, having a crush is perfectly normal. I had crushes when I was at school and I was around your age. I was way too shy to say anything though and once I had to sit next to my crush in maths class and he turned around and said "you're not a mute are you?" and I was like "no" he said "oh" that was awkward but I get why he said it because I really didn't talk much.
So anyway, him looking over at you could mean he likes you especially if he looks at you then quickly looks away when your notice him looking over at you. When you hang out with him again look for some signs that he into you like: If he smiles a lot around you, he teases you in a light hearted way (not in a mean way),trying to impress you, is always around you or tries to hang out with you a lot then he likes you. Try and see if how he acts around other girls and if he acts differently with you. [ Tigz285's advice column | Ask Tigz285 A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday May 15 2013, 4:42 am: Usually if you think he does, then he does-girls have intuition like that.
But I know its hard, but try not to get sucked up with the relationships thing too much. You're in an important part of your school career-focus on your education :) [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Tuesday May 14 2013, 4:31 pm: Well it's very vague to tell whether a guy likes you because he looks at you, but if you guys talk a lot and he shows interest in you, he probably likes you.
I mean there could be tons of different reasons why he looks at you and why his friends look at you. But you'll never know unless he tells you.
There is a good chance he does like you though. Just keep talking to him and become his friend and see where that goes. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday May 14 2013, 11:22 am: I'd say that at your age the repeated looks is one sign. That he's willing to talk to you is another. And his friends razzing him after you walk by, likely means they must know of his interest in you so they tease him.
If you knew he liked you, does that change anything. You both already talk to each other, more than most 13 yr olds who write in. You cant do the kind of dating as older teens would do. At your age, just spending more time in each others presence, talking is a good thing to learning how the other sex thinks and believes and so on. So spend more time around him. If you have the time next time he's standing there with his buddies, ask you walk by, mind if I hang out with you guys for a bit. Have some idea of a question to ask and go for it. maybe ask, "What do you like to talk about most." I'll bet the answer is Girls whether they're willing to admit it or not. If they do say that, you can always say, I'm a girl, so what do you want to know about girls. Have some fun with it. And enjoy your crush [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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