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i get nervous around my boyfriend. Alot!!
Me and my boyfriend first started datin in jube but we broke up in july and then we got back together in october. So everytime I'm around him or in the same room, I get/ feel nervous. Why?
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There is no valuable information in the question for me to even remotely understand what it is that you're asking. Please, add to the question.
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Dragonflymagic's answer is a good one. I will add that nervousness is also part of our safety system. It could be, and as Dragonflymagic said we are only guessing since you gave no other information, that because of whatever caused you to break up in July there could be some trust issues you have with him. This to my way of thinking would be normal.
Not knowing your age makes it near impossible to give you a good answer. If you are a young teenager there are a whole host of reasons you would or could be nervous around him or any other boy especially if he is older than you.
To give you a better answer you would need to write one or both of us with more information. Information such as your ages, his and yours. What caused you to break up and why you got back together. Who approached who to get back together. What he does to make you nervous and is he pressing you to have sex with him.
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It's hard to give you an answer as to why, when I do not know anything about you, or him or the situation. If I told you that I have a stomach ache right now and I am asking you why, could you answer me? No,,,because you lack details. Maybe I ate too much sweets, maybe I worry too much and have a stomach ulcer.
I can only take a wild guess that you are a young teen so if your'e much older please dont be offended.
Young teens are often nervous because dating and relationships are all very new to them. So you could be nervous just because this is all new to you and not knowing what to do and not being able to understand whats going on or know how to respond can make a person feel very unsure of themself and nervous.
If you have any more specific question and details about your situation, I'd be glad to try and help give some answers more precise to your exact situation.
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