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porn + Christians??? can anyone relate?
hi, im a 17 year old female. Im a Christian, God and i are really tight. im known amongst my friends as being the pure, innocent Christian one who would never hurt a fly. i have never drunk or done drugs, havent dated, and i neverrr swear. But, ocassionally i can get in the mood to satisfy some certain... wants.
you see, every now and then, ill read these manga with really lewd sex scenes in them on a website. some ofthem can get pretty graphic. now dont get me wrong, ihave never and WILL never masturbate. but every now and again, ill just randomly want to look them up. now, i have never watched sex animes or looked up real life porn. ive looked up manga, and read some certain dirty fanfictions, but never anything worse. ill only read them for about 15 minutes or so before i get this huuuuugely awful feeling in my stomach, and stop. then i proceed to immerse myself in as much innocent things as i can in orderto get those awful images out of my head.
im not trying to make excuses for myself or justify my actions, but im saying they're not as extreme other people's can be, and I am certainly nooot addicted to it. but... yeah.
can any Christian, or well, you don'thave to be Christian, people relate to what im doing or feeling? i just want to make sure im not insane. Thanks. :)
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I can relate to what you are saying. You are not insane.
Growing up, I was taught that sex was not for me. Like if the neighbors spoke Italian at home and I knew English was for me, not Italian.
This was wrong.
Sex is for everybody!
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
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Have you ever had an orgasm?
As an orgasm approaches, your muscle tension increases and you may begin breathing harder and sweating a little. When it is about to begin, you may feel like you have to pee, but you won't. Then, it begins when the muscles in your lower abdomen tense involuntarily like when you're about to sneeze. Next, those same muscles begin contracting and relaxing involuntarily. With each contraction you feel incredible pleasure. You have about 10 contractions in about 10 seconds. After it is over, you will feel very happy, warm, and relaxed.
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I am not a Christian but I am all about god as well. God as I see him is very forgiving. The 6 biggest sins that god doesn't forgive is murder, child or domestic or animal abuse, rape or dishonor, that's a few examples. But now as for the reading sexual magna, or watching porn we are human god understands this he will forgive you. Honestly with all the rules that people believe god has, We all would be going to Hell all of us have sined in our lives, its part of life. What god wants the most is for us too learn from our mistakes, admit that we were wrong, give amends to those we hurt, and forgive those who trespass against us. I myself have sins, but I have learned from my mistakes and I am fixing them. So my answer to your question no your not going to Hell for doing what you are, and yes its normal we are all human.
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Greetings……The Law of God states Exodus 20:14….. Jesus Christ came to magnify the Law Isaiah 42:21…He magnified that Law by saying, Matthew 5:28….Paul an Apostle of Jesus stated 2 Corinthians 7:1 …..Revelation 22:14 reemphasizes what Jesus said in Matthew 7:21….. Jesus said in John 14:15,24…..You can resist those urges….before Cain killed his brother God spoke to Cain and said Genesis 4:6-8….(emphasis on verse 7) ….. Philippians 2:13….. never forget….John 15:1-10 and Revelation 14:12…..
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Everyone can relate to what you're feeling and doing. Sexual desire is a natural state of being for everyone past the age of puberty who isn't asexual.
The thing about Christianity is that you've been taught from a young age that these things are sinful and dirty and wrong, and so that's creating a conflict with your natural desires which leads you to treat this like it's something wrong with you as a person.
The truth is that what christianity tells you should be right runs directly counter to what everyone's natural inclination is. It does this because it allows religion to make you feel like there is something wrong with you that you need religion to address.
Plenty of Christians look at porn. Some people feel it's wrong, some don't. Plenty of Christians masturbate. Some feel it's wrong, some don't. Plenty of christians have sex outside of marriage. Some think it's wrong, some don't.
You can try to minimize and excuse your actions or you can accept that you were created with certain urges and decide what you're willing to do to satisfy them. Either way, you need to try to make some peace with yourself over it. Whatever you believe about how people should act, you aren't perfect and you never will be. Better to accept it and do what you need to do than drive youself insane over it and feel guilty because you don't measure up to a standard that literally no one on this earth measures up to.
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Hey,
I'm Christian to, though with you I don't think this is relevent.
You're 17. So you're finding out who you are. Everyone-even the quiet geeky guy in class has felt this urge at some point, even if not following it through. It's a teenage thing. Think about it. Everyone uses pragmatics for different positions and most people lie about sex. Teens are therefore bound to be confused. So the solution? Look this stuff up! Unconsciously you're curious, but consciously you feel abit 'in the mood'.
When you enter you're first serious relationship, this should stop. But unless its getting you upset and down don't worry. At least you've admitted to what you're doing :)
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