hi im 19y.o guy bi im trying to get this guy out of my head but i cant seem to block him out when im with my girlfriend he suddenly pops in my mind how can i erase him from my mind for good?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? carayotie answered Wednesday May 9 2012, 7:33 pm: If there was an easy to this, then you wouldn't need the advice! Unfortunately, as much as you don't want to hear this, it'll take time. Time really does heal all. Trick is to just keep busy, focus on your girlfriend and what you like about her. Did you have any closure with the guy? that could be why he still pops up. If not, maybe you need to find a way to reach that closure.
More or less, it will take time.
I'm sorry it couldn't be any easier.
AMSxO answered Tuesday May 8 2012, 11:40 am: You can't. What you can do is look in the positives in the girl, look what made you attracted to her to begin with..or start off fresh with somebody new that will make you enjoy the chase that you're missing. You have to start paying attention to other things in order to forget the past. You are able to do it, if you strongly believe it you will do it.
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