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Crush or Love?
So recently, there's this really cute guy (14) that I've been interested in. His names Sam and he seems cool and all his friends keeps on saying that he likes me.
But then there's this other guy (15) that I've been friends with for longer and known him longer than Sam.
It's kinda starting to sound like the Hunger Games...
I don't know who to choose. This second guy, Will and I have shared our feelings for each other, and he doesn't mind waiting, but if he knows that I have feelings for Sam, he'll freak out and wouldn't want to be my friend anymore. Should I risk a friendship or just stay single for now?
BTW, I'm 14
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
who first comes to your mind? what boy makes you feel happy? don't do this for them, do this for you. think about who makes you happy. NEVER SECOND GUESS yourself. if you are thinking about one of those boys in the back of your mind, but then you deny it and keep going back and forth between the two, i can guarantee the one that first comes to mind and stays in mind is the one you should choose. however, if you over think the answer every time you ask yourself which one, i would take some time figuring things out and being single for now. if you are constantly going back and forth between them and second guessing yourself every time you make a decision, it's not fair to the two guys to be changing your mind left and right. don't force the decision. let it come naturally. if it doesn't come naturally right away, take some time to figure things out, don't rush, be patient, and then when you're certain you can make up your mind. you have plenty of time to decide. you have your whole life ahead of you and this is just the beginning bottom line: do what feels right. don't force your decision.
good luck:)
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