I am a loner I have my family but that's it. I'm 22 but feel like Im 60, I have been through so much in life that people who know me tell me I should write a book. I like helping people, and having my voice heard. So here I am ..
Gender: Female
Location: born in bosnia live in iowa
Occupation: student and full time job
Age: 22
Member Since: May 15, 2012
Answers: 6
Last Update: May 16, 2012
Visitors: 979
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So I Was In The Store Yesterday And This Boy That Used To Talk To My Cousin Started Hugging And Touching Me. I Pushed Him Away And Asked Did He Still Talk To My Cousiin And He Acted Like He Didnt Know Her. When He Was Leaving He Wanted Me To Text Him And he Asked To Come Over My House. My Question Is Would It Be Right To Start Talking To Him If They Have Stopped Talking (They were friends with benefits) But Would It Still Be Right..?? (link)
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I have a rule for myself if my family dated, or hooked up with the guy no matter the situation I don't go after him. Just because my family member used to have feelings for that person, and it would be back stapping them in their eyes, no matter the situation. I honestly would say to stay away from him, if all he did with your cousin is friends with benefits that's all he wants from you. That boy is not good news, especially if he is trying to keep it within the family. I would say don't go too his house, and don't hang out with him. Plus if your cousin is important too you at all, you would not do that too her.
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im in this relationship with this guy but im not sure if he likes me. i really like him though. all his friends say that he tells them that he loves me but how do i know for surewithout confronting him about it? (link)
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Honestly sweetheart if you worry about it, or stress he will start to notice it. Then he will think that something is wrong, or that you are doing something. My advice is tell him your true feelings, and ask him for his. This is called communication and the number one thing in a healthy relationship is communication. If he likes/loves you great, I am happy for you. If not then he was not meant to be with you and you can do better. Always remember that if someone doesn't like you, then you shouldn't be with that person, and if you can't talk to the person and share feelings then it isn't real.
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I am on my fourth girlfriend and all of the rest broke up with me saying they dident even like me, I am in middle school I found this girl that I really she could be the one but that's what I thought about the others what should I do? (link)
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I'll tell you this. I used to be just like you (though I am a girl) I always believed that every guy I met was the one back in middle school and high school, and everyone of them would leave the same way "I wasn't their type", even now I'm 22 and still looking for the right person, I have a few guy friends who are in the same boat. The best advice I was given that I will give you is this. Stop worrying about girls at such a young age you worry about yourself, and make yourself happy, once you love yourself and you are happy, and not looking for the right one, or something serious especially at a young age, then the right girl will find you. Trust me you don't want too give your heart out freely not in this society, if you do you will keep getting hurt to the point of where you are a cold person, and you don't want to be that. So study, stay in school and do great, don't worry about them girls you'll find Mrs. Right when you are mature and ready.
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hi, im a 17 year old female. Im a Christian, God and i are really tight. im known amongst my friends as being the pure, innocent Christian one who would never hurt a fly. i have never drunk or done drugs, havent dated, and i neverrr swear. But, ocassionally i can get in the mood to satisfy some certain... wants.
you see, every now and then, ill read these manga with really lewd sex scenes in them on a website. some ofthem can get pretty graphic. now dont get me wrong, ihave never and WILL never masturbate. but every now and again, ill just randomly want to look them up. now, i have never watched sex animes or looked up real life porn. ive looked up manga, and read some certain dirty fanfictions, but never anything worse. ill only read them for about 15 minutes or so before i get this huuuuugely awful feeling in my stomach, and stop. then i proceed to immerse myself in as much innocent things as i can in orderto get those awful images out of my head.
im not trying to make excuses for myself or justify my actions, but im saying they're not as extreme other people's can be, and I am certainly nooot addicted to it. but... yeah.
can any Christian, or well, you don'thave to be Christian, people relate to what im doing or feeling? i just want to make sure im not insane. Thanks. :) (link)
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I am not a Christian but I am all about god as well. God as I see him is very forgiving. The 6 biggest sins that god doesn't forgive is murder, child or domestic or animal abuse, rape or dishonor, that's a few examples. But now as for the reading sexual magna, or watching porn we are human god understands this he will forgive you. Honestly with all the rules that people believe god has, We all would be going to Hell all of us have sined in our lives, its part of life. What god wants the most is for us too learn from our mistakes, admit that we were wrong, give amends to those we hurt, and forgive those who trespass against us. I myself have sins, but I have learned from my mistakes and I am fixing them. So my answer to your question no your not going to Hell for doing what you are, and yes its normal we are all human.
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I am virgin.My boyfriend fingered me with dry hands on the 23rd day of my menstrual cycle. He was not that deep . neither was there any kind of bleeding. 1 Week have passed since my period date. it is quite normal for me. please tell me if theres any kind of possibilty i am pregnant. Or its just because of stress my periods is delayed.. ?? please advice. (link)
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The only way you would be pregnant is if his sperm touched your vagina, or was inside you. If that never happened then its stress, and you said it's normal for you too be late then you have an abnormal period, which some women tend too have, especially if they started their period at a very young age. Nothing to worry about. Also to get pregnant you would have to lay on a pillow and keep his sperm inside you for awhile.
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i've been talking to this boy for 2 weeks now. i'm starting to really like him, and i think he really likes me also. the only problem is he is still in love with his ex girlfriend. he brought up a couple times already comments regarding his ex. i think he was unaware of it though.
so i went on his facebook today and saw the pictures of them still up. updated only a month ago. i know they're not still seeing each other. i'm afraid if i continue to see him i might really fall for him and get hurt in the long run. what would you do in my situation? (link)
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I've been in this situation 5 times, and honestly all five situations ended the same way. I liked them a lot and they either left me for their ex girlfriends, or told me they can't be in a relationship after we already are in one. My best advice from the five situations I was in, i would say turn around and keep walking. These situations only lead too heart breaks.
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