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Girlfriends broke up with me saying they dident even like me
I am on my fourth girlfriend and all of the rest broke up with me saying they dident even like me, I am in middle school I found this girl that I really she could be the one but that's what I thought about the others what should I do?
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I'll tell you this. I used to be just like you (though I am a girl) I always believed that every guy I met was the one back in middle school and high school, and everyone of them would leave the same way "I wasn't their type", even now I'm 22 and still looking for the right person, I have a few guy friends who are in the same boat. The best advice I was given that I will give you is this. Stop worrying about girls at such a young age you worry about yourself, and make yourself happy, once you love yourself and you are happy, and not looking for the right one, or something serious especially at a young age, then the right girl will find you. Trust me you don't want too give your heart out freely not in this society, if you do you will keep getting hurt to the point of where you are a cold person, and you don't want to be that. So study, stay in school and do great, don't worry about them girls you'll find Mrs. Right when you are mature and ready.
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Lighten up, sweetie. You probably aren't going to find the one for years to come. Enjoy your youth, and if another girl leaves you, it's her loss.
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Haha! I saw this and had to post something.It brought back memories of my youth. :) Coconutcatastrophe is right, don't worry about girls yet. If it makes you feel better I didn't even have my first boyfriend till I was a freshmen in high school. Inevitably, just like most relationships formed in highschool, we broke up. We didn't realize we were meant to be together until 6 years later. LOL! But yeah, just get involved in hobbies. If you would like to learn an instrument get in band. If you want to learn a sport do that than. You are VERY young and have your whole life ahead of you. If you see a cute girl there's nothing wrong with hanging out with her, but don't get your heartbroken if it doesn't work out. Right now you should be enjoying your life, not worrying about having a date on Friday night even though it does sound like you are VERY popular.
xoxo,
dottier
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I wouldn't worry about girls when you're in middle school. Focus on doing well in school and any hobbies that you like. Having four girlfriends in middle school seems like enough as it is at that age. Especially regarding the fact that high school relationships rarely last, let alone a middle school one.
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The only true way to find out is ask her how she feels about you. Don't take it to the heart that those girls said that, you, ight have made them mad or something and they just say that. You gotta make sure you have big time feelings for them before you get feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same. Otherwhise you just get played, because your taking things to fast.
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