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I really want to have sex with my bf and he's asked me about before I'm 12 should I and just tell him to use a condom or what? (link)
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Well you're way to be having sex, but if you decide you are going to: use a condom, and pee after your done.
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I met a man through friends and we have been dating for the last ten months , in that time we have gone from being best friends to tolerating each other. I love him but im not sure whether I want to keep it going. We have spilt up a few times and always got back together stronger but this last episode has just crushed me. i had a party on Sunday and a few people told me that my BF was oggling my best friend now shes a big girl and they are on display so i took no notice but then I caught him doing it and then to top it off another member of my family told me if my BF had the chance he would get in with my best friend (Happily Married) when I asked him he didnt say no he just muttered something about maybe not. I told my friend what he had done and she was embarrassed and upset about it. I have to decide do I carry on or do I let it go ??? I am suffering with the menopause at the moment and seriously think I am losing my mind !!!!!! Can someone give me some advice before I do loose my mind (link)
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You should talk to him about it first. But maybe you should let him go, if you keep forgiving him he's going to think he can keep doing things like this. They say everyone deserves a second chance, but I dont know about a third .
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My boyfriend (24) and I(19) have been dating for over a year I am in college and his a banker... When I was in high school I stole someone's money because I was soo broke I had just lost both parents at that time and I had nothing, I was caught and made to apologise and return the money... Well every thing ended that was about six years ago... Now I am in this relationship and my boyfriend comes back from work really pissed, he came straight to my house and sat me down asking me questions about what happened 6yrs ago, I told him everything but he didn't say a word to me he just left my house, its been 3days and he hasn't called or replied my text messages I love my boyfriend so much and I don't want to loose him. What should I do. (link)
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You should tell him you were just 13 &' you lost both of your parents and your mind wasn't right at the time. He should understand, I have friends that do worse. It was a mistake, and the money was returned. Im not really sure why that would have made him mad, unless it was a lot of money ? Fact of the matter is you returned it !
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I am on my fourth girlfriend and all of the rest broke up with me saying they dident even like me, I am in middle school I found this girl that I really she could be the one but that's what I thought about the others what should I do? (link)
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The only true way to find out is ask her how she feels about you. Don't take it to the heart that those girls said that, you, ight have made them mad or something and they just say that. You gotta make sure you have big time feelings for them before you get feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same. Otherwhise you just get played, because your taking things to fast.
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How many people think majority of healthy foods are just plain nasty tasting?
I hate eating most healthy foods, they have no flavor and some make me gag. I get tired of eating baked fish, baked chicken, canned tuna, health shakes, most vegetables, etc. The foods I have to eat to stay healthy. I know people are supposed to eat to live and not live to eat, but at the same time I feel like i'm eating nasty food that taste like I'm chewing on wood or paper.
I get cravings for soda, chips & candy
How do you eat healthy food without cheating on your diet? (link)
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Maybe try weight watchers, or like those chunky soups, though they don't really taste like soups there really good.
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I have best friend which is a guy, he did something that upsets me. Well, he just made me look like a foolish girl. He wants me to be his BFF again but i made a condition.He will write a letter to me of how important our friendship is, He didn't wrote any but we are normal friends. (link)
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I bet you do matter to him, its just harder for guys to open up &' express how they really feel. If he didn't care I don't think he would have gave you anything. We can't really tell you that though. He is the only person who could tell you, if it bothers you a lot maybe you need to talk to him about it so you can get a for sure yes or no.
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How do girls get cum??? (link)
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Girls come by fingering themselves
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16 Female. Size: 34 D
I hate my boobs they are so saggy and i am so embarrassed. I can never show my boobs to a guy because i am so embarrassed about them. I want to get a breast lift and a boob job or something but i know i can't do that anytime soon:(
I exercise often and have been running for a long time off and on but i ware two or three sports bras and a bra to try to keep them from moving as much as possible when i run, because i herd that running makes your boobs sag? So thats why i put on that many sports bras cause i don't want them to sag even more. idk i just hate my boobs and i want to fix them :(
Do you have any advice on workouts the lift your breasts and make them perky? (link)
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Maybe try asking chacha, you shouldnt feel like you need to change your self just so some guy will like you. If he really likes he wont care what your boobs look like. Maybe they just seem like that to you. Yhu need a good bra, and sports bra.
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I am a college student & almost 20 years old. I have friends, but rarely get to see them. My mom doesn't really like me going anywhere, & when I do she yells at me & won't talk to me for days. I make plans to go see friends away at school & she even gives me all these ideas on how to get there & what to take, etc. & then the very last minute, is all "nooo, you can't go." She does this with any plans I make! & I always end up canceling. I've lost a decent amount of friends because of this.
I sit home every weekend, & I am so bored & unhappy all the time, because I never do anything. & I don't mean like staying out all night or something, I mean simple things, like going shopping with a friend or going to the movies or something.
What do I do?
My dad usually disagrees with her, but then she gets mad so he ends up agreeing with her. So I have nobody on my side about anything. & I don't want to just move out, that is just pushing the issue under the rug, & that would be expensive..
What should I say? (link)
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You are grown and in college i think you should move out.
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I want to kill myself...I've been getting bullied since middle school & my family hates me?
I really want to kill myself. I'm always depressed because I get picked on at school & my family members treat me like I'm a piece of crap. they think I'm a weirdo because I'm quiet & they tell me I don't have any friends, but if I told them I was getting picked on in school they probally wouldn't care or believe me. My family always fusses at me & talks about me like I'm worthless, they don't understand me & I don't want to talk to them because they never will understand.They say a lot of things to hurt my feelings & then I go to school & get picked on by kids because of the way I look. I have been being picked on since the 6th grade. If they found out that I cry in my room they probally wouldn't care or think I'm serious. I'probablyslapped before by a kid just because they didn't like me. I'm tired of being picked on at school & my family always putting me down. I'm not a ad kid. I make good grades, but I hate my life...When I get depressed I just go in my room and cry because if I talk to family about it they probally won't care. I don't even want to talk to anyone I just want to kill myself. I don't have a gun so I think the best way is to just use a knife. (link)
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I know what you mean. Ive been through that same thing except for the family part. But all you have to do is stand up for your self. If you dont you will continue to be picked on.
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I know many people think this is a stupid question, but how can I kill myself with no pain at all? I've been through so much from abuse, rape and so on..I just feel like its time leave this world. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel, but you and i both know there are times in your life that you cherish. Your just so upset at the time you just want to commit suicide. Unfortunately there is no way you can commit suicide without pain.
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my husband works and i stay at home. he says there is no reason why the house should not be clean and laundry be done etc... he refuses to help in any way says he pays all the bills and
i am responsible for everything else. if its not done, i really get yelled at and im about to have a nervous breakdown (link)
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Well it seems to me you are a grown woman not a kid. He shouldn't be yelling at you, im pretty sure you can hear well. If he gets mad that you are not cleaning all that you need to clean what would he do if it was something more serious ? Maybe you should think about that before trying to make a future with him.
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Well I'm 11 and when I was 10 my brother-in-law lifted up my skirt and ever since he was asking me for naked pictures and he's tried kissing me and touching me he sent me sexual messages so I told my mom about them and I deleted the messages so I didn't have proof for the police I told my sister about him lifting up my skirt but she didn't believe me please help me I don't know what to do! Oh yes and he has a child and he's 32 (link)
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Why would you delete them ? Well the only thing you could really do is try talking to him normal then see if he starts sexually talking to you. Only wit your parent permission, because then if you took your phone to them and showed them and they went to the police they would think it was you coming on to him, and not him coming onto you. But he may not if it came up to him about the subject he was molesting you.
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my sister and i got into this huge argument and i am 23 years old but i am M r. and she beat my head in to the floor until she made my nose all bloody and some of my teeth fall out and my back hurts and it's been almost a week since it happened is it to late to press charges for assault since they say my mind is like an 11 year old would they put charges on her for child abuse? If I go to the hospitable for my back would they automatically call the police since i am Mr.? (link)
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Well if you go to the hospital something could happen because having the mind of a 11 year old being 23 would make it seem like your disable. No they wouldn't automatically call the police unless you requested or they thought the damage of your back was serious.
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I'm a 16 year old female who was sexually abused two weeks ago, and knows about the pain and awful trauma that follows. My abuser is in jail, and I feel good knowing he won't do it again. Last night, a 19 year old guy kept on asking me to have sex with him, and he was very inappropriate and not giving up, even after I told him I was a virgin. He later apologized when I told him I was calling the police, cuz he was really scared. I feel if I don't tell on him, he might actually hurt other girls, and I don't want to take responsibility for that. But he didn't actually do anything. Should I tell on him? I don't want to ruin his life... (link)
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Well there is nothing the police can do because he didn't physically touch you. You cant ruin his life that way. Just let him know that you want nothing to do with him and for him not to speak to you again. I want to be a lawyer so i know that even if you did tell someone nothing serious could happen.
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i am in a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife , he is not divorce her yet but he is living with me. Now sudenly his wife is working night shift as home health aid, he has to go sleep with his son every night and left me alone. what should i do now?.I am so depress and i feel likekilling myself (link)
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You should find someone better. He has his own family to take care of. He is not going to just leave his kid for you. And if he really cared about you he would've already filed for divorce and tried to take full custody of the child. He is a pastor and that would look bad on him if he divorced when you're not supposed to divorce.
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I have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for 3 months. We started really nice and everything was lovely. Recently he's been under pressure due to stuff going on at home, even though he won't talk to me about it much. We were at his house and he got really upset. I tried to hug him but he pushed me down onto the floor, it didnt hurt much but it was a shock. Numerous occasions after this he's hit me or shoved me when he's got annoyed. I know he's stressed, but he doesnt apologise. He just pretends it never happens. Im beinning to bruise and im scared. What should I do? (17, girl.) (link)
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You should call it off with him. If that's what he does when he is stressed, who knows what he'll do to you when he gets really upset. Trust me it only gets worse, because the boy feels he is in control of you. A man should never hit a woman, no matter what the situation is.
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