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In a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife
i am in a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife , he is not divorce her yet but he is living with me. Now sudenly his wife is working night shift as home health aid, he has to go sleep with his son every night and left me alone. what should i do now?.I am so depress and i feel likekilling myself
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Sweety, I'm going to be real with you. You're the other woman. You are not his number one. He has not even claimed you as his. He masquerades like a good shepard tending his sheep, but truth is he is a wolf in sheep's clothing. He belongs to someone else. If you loved yourself and stood up for what is just and good, you would leave him. As a woman you are beautiful and more valuable than you may even think. You should find someone who will hold you in high regards and not "play" you. As a religious woman what you are doing and allowing to be done is not right. Please take a closer look at the situation and even when it hurts, you can get through this. It may be uncomfortable but you are able to do what you know is right. And remember, if he did it to his own wife, he'll do it to you.
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You should find someone better. He has his own family to take care of. He is not going to just leave his kid for you. And if he really cared about you he would've already filed for divorce and tried to take full custody of the child. He is a pastor and that would look bad on him if he divorced when you're not supposed to divorce.
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If a man can make you that depressed to the point where you want to kill yourself because of his actions...it's time to leave him! Why couldn't he take his son and stay where you guys live? Makes no sense, he's making no effort. But then again his child will always be more important than anybody else so if you can't understand that well then maybe you're not cut out for the relationship that you guys have. He has to support his child and be there for him. But you saying that it makes you want to kill yourself...well that's another thing and you need to get out. If you can't be secure in your relationship then this isn't the one for you!
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