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confused about my relationship
I met a man through friends and we have been dating for the last ten months , in that time we have gone from being best friends to tolerating each other. I love him but im not sure whether I want to keep it going. We have spilt up a few times and always got back together stronger but this last episode has just crushed me. i had a party on Sunday and a few people told me that my BF was oggling my best friend now shes a big girl and they are on display so i took no notice but then I caught him doing it and then to top it off another member of my family told me if my BF had the chance he would get in with my best friend (Happily Married) when I asked him he didnt say no he just muttered something about maybe not. I told my friend what he had done and she was embarrassed and upset about it. I have to decide do I carry on or do I let it go ??? I am suffering with the menopause at the moment and seriously think I am losing my mind !!!!!! Can someone give me some advice before I do loose my mind
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if you think your BF is not capable of being loyal to you anymore then you should just let it go before he really does something that will seriously hurt you. being happy with him is nonsense if you feel that he's gonna do something wrong or if your unhappy with him. confront him with your feelings and talk it out and then decide if you still want to be with him or not.
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He's not respecting you at all. You're miserable. Try talking to him and if he acts the same and you see no change and you see him not trying, let him go. You could find someone better who won't go flirting around with other girls, especially your best friend.
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oh hell naw. dump the dumb ass to the curve. you DESERVE better than that. not only was this guy flirting with someone else, but YOUR BEST FRIEND. That's just plain old, disrespectful. A guy that cares about you would never do that. And if he really did say that about your friend, it's time for you to go find someone better. Who respects you, because being hurt like that... that's not what love is.
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You should talk to him about it first. But maybe you should let him go, if you keep forgiving him he's going to think he can keep doing things like this. They say everyone deserves a second chance, but I dont know about a third .
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