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I'm 12 and want to have sex should I?
I really want to have sex with my bf and he's asked me about before I'm 12 should I and just tell him to use a condom or what?
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No, you shouldn't do it. You're way too young. You should wait until you're older, when you are positive it's what you want. Right now, you're guessing it. It'll hurt, you have the chance to get pregnant even with a condom, then there is the emotional part which is even harder to handle. Just wait a couple years. Boys will always want sex. You're way too young to give it up.
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honestly i would wait . its not worth it , people say it hurts alot and your only 12 your still a child people your age shouldnt even think about sex. and plus its more fun to wait until like college or at least high school. plus with a condom there is still a chance to get pregnat, trust me. but if you really want to then just be safe.
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Well you're way to be having sex, but if you decide you are going to: use a condom, and pee after your done.
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I don't know how old your boy friend is but at 12 years old you should not be having sexual intercourse. You should still be fending boys off from copping a feel and keeping your clothes on.
You are way, way to young to consider having sex something if you do have at this age you will live to regret for the rest of your life. Condoms are only 85% effective at preventing pregnancy and not fully protective at protecting you fron STDs. At 85% effectiveness you have a 2 in 10 chance of getting pregnant when you have sex. The more you have sex the more you increase the odds of getting pregnant.
Think about it: You are the one that gets pregnant, not him. You are the one that has to tell mom and dad your pregnant, not him. You are the one that has to decide to have the baby or not, not him. If you have the baby do you keep the baby or give it uo for adoption. Your decission not his. You are the one that has to live with the pain of giving away a child you carried for 9 months. If you keep the child you have to raise the child.
Sure mayby mom and dad will be there for you and help raise the child until you are old enough and able to do so on your own; or maybe not. Are you ready and able to raise a child on your own? Your not even old enough to get a real job, that is at least 4 years away. How will you pay for food. clothing, rent and doctor bills for you and the baby. You still need to go to school, that is state law. who will care for the baby while you're in school.
There is a lot more to raising a child than what I listed. But this is the end result of sex by young teenagers, which your have not even obtained that age yet, who have sex. Statistically the younger you are when you have sex the more likely you are to become pregnant.
For the boy it is a few minutes of fun and he gets to walk away for legally he is to young to be held responcible. You on the other hand have few to no choices. Actually you have no choice; because of your age you must do whatever mom and dad decide. So is it worth it to give in to your boyfriend. No it is not. You are many years away from a sex life when you are more mature and able to better protect yourself from pregnancy.
So my question to you is how bad do you want to have sex? If you still do then answer this question.
Picture yourself in a room full of 12 year old girls. Shake hands with the girls to your left, right, front and in back of you. Now tell me which girls in this room is the other girl? The reason for my question is this. We all feel these things only happen to someone else never to us. So if you can say which girl among all the girls in that room is the other girl; then maybe you won't get pregnant if you do have sex.
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