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Q: So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what we look like in a convo while chatting?? Is 3 years older than me way out of my league?? I mean, IDK if he's in a relationship wit someone, but I want to get some ideas. Can you guys give me some please?? Thanks so much.
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DONT trust him, i have been dumb in the past and talked to guys and stuff and it turned out they were preadtors using fake pictures of there like nephews and stuff, people lie alot on the internet, like to much, watch this movie called trust. its on netflix. i think it will open your eyes to talking to people on the internet who you dont know who they are
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Q: Hi! For Chloraseptics, which one worked more for you? the spray or the lozenges??
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for me the lozenges because it soothes your throat better,
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Q: I'm 13 and I loove Emo style or their music(BVB)
1st question is...I don't cut myself. Do I have to do it if I wanna be a real emo? And also I'm a cheerful person so, am I not Emo for that? I have nothing to be sad about in my life.
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the reason why most people cut them selves is because they are depressed , you dont have to cut yourselve if you wanna have that emo look. i went through a stage where i loved the emo look but i didnt cut myself cause i was to happy to do that. now though im like a preppy kind of girl, sorta. haha well anyways, no you dont have to cut yourselve and i advise you never cut yourselve because it gets addicting then your parents would find out and it ruins your life.
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Q: I have always been the kindof "fat" one in school. I do not think that i am very pretty at all. Whenever I say hi to the people in the halls, they dont say anything back. I don't know what i am doing wrong. I just got glasses a little over 4 weeks ago, and i feel like the nerd that no one wants to be around. I am only 13 years old. I weigh about 145 lbs. I need to know if there is anything i could do to be pretty and get boys to like me for who I am.
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i had the same problem when i was 13, NO ONE liked me, people thought i was annoying and i was on the chuncky side. what i did was just worked out ALOT and all i drank was water and ate very little and i cut out alot of junk food and sugars from my diet. its not really healthly to not eat absoulty nothing but yeah. you could go on youtube or google for beauty tips. thats what i did ,but i mean . you should just be yourself no matter what, sooner or later there will someone there for you. i didnt find anyone until this year and im 15 now. so just have faith(:
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Q: I'm looking for some new websites/forums to go on. Which websites do you use regularly/spend a lot of time on? (Excluding obvious ones like Twitter, Facebook and email etc).
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im alwasy on Tumblr. its a blog site that you can blog with pictures that describe yourself
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Q: I am trying to run at LEAST one mile a day. Usually two. I also have summer swim team practice for an hour 2-3 times a week and a meet every Saturday. I've been drinking 80 ounces of water a day and eating very healthy. No junk, lots of veggies and fruits.
I have lost 3 pounds so far and want to lose at least ten more. How long do you think it will take? Sorry, so impatient and want to see results in my body already.
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make sure your getting some protein to , it will probally take maybe 2-5 weeks it just depends on your body
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Q: im 12 a femal and i dont have my period. every day when i go to the bath room i see clear goo on my underwear that must have come from my vagina. some times i find it dry and see it turns a tiny bit yellow. im scared what is this stuff. does it mean im going to get my period?
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thats called "discharge" its totally normal, it is a sign you probally are going to start your period soon but dont worry every girl has it
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Q: I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?
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you should probally just start out with a friendly conversation , get to know him better then him get to know YOU better then just kinda tell him how you feel, i hope things work out!(:
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Q: So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not?
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Maybe you should try getting his number or talking to him through facebook or something and get to know him , i mean if he talks to you then he probally likes you but you never know unless you talk to him. (:
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Q: I jut got my period today but it's my first tIme and I'm going to California this summer and I'm gonna be in the water a lot and i dont know what to if I get my period there and I'm scared to use tampons so I don't know what to do other than tell my friend about it or wear black bathing suit bottoms.
Please give me some advice I need some soon cuz I'm leaving soon!!!
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id use a tampon to be safe cause sometimes if you get out of the water there might be blood trickling down your leg, and thats embarssing, so id use a tampon , its not scary trust me just put it in youll know you have it in right when you put it in and dont feel a thing. im 15 and ive been using tampons since i was 13 so its no big deal, just make sure it isnt super just use a regular one.
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Q: I am from Canada. Ok so there's this guy in my class that I really like and I don't know how to tell him and I don't know if he feels the same way about me... What should I do about this?? Should I tell him??? Should I ask his friends if he likes me??? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!
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just ask him for his number or ask one of his friends for his number and start talking to him OFTEN then like after a week or 2 weeks of talking then tell him how you feel, but dont rush things to much he might get freaked out or something,
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Q: Hi, I asked the question about my 27 year old "friend" and I'm 13. You might not remember me, but I know everybody is saying do tell my mom. But how would I tell her? And also she would yell at me for not telling her sooner ! I'm scared and uncomfortable not just pretending that I don't know. Plus, he's nice a lot of the time and buys me stuff I need or want . But sometimes, he freaks me out because he just pulled up porn on his computer when I was just sitting there. He also showed me his dildo , which I don't know why he does. The only reaction I ever give him , is ew! You're digusting! And when he isn't doing that, he calls himself my dad. Maybe to try to make me forget he ever said anything about liking me. I don't know how I could ever tell my mom though . But I feel like I can't really get away from him . Also whenever i'm with my boyfriend or another boy I like . He always criticizes them. Back in 2010, I used to live in the hotel he lived/ worked at, and a couple times when I went to go watch movies with him in his room, he sorta felt up my side of my leg and kept getting very close to my private area. But I kept getting up acting like I had to do something because last couple of times I tried to leave after he would kiss my neck out of the blue when he knew I told him stop. Well he wouldn't let me leave he stood in front of the only way out. So , that's why I didn't when he touched me because I thought he wouldn't hurt me if I went along with it... But I don't know why I stayed friends with him. Is there something wrong with me? Oh, if only I could tell this to somebody I know like my mom. Help,please
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okay listen. you have to tell your mom before he goes any further then touching you. its really dangerous just be like, mom i dont want you to get mad at me but i need help , then tell her that you need help getting away from the guy and that he makes you feel uncomterble , the only reason why he buys you things you want is so he can be like o well ill buy you this if you do this for me (and at times it can be sexual) i want you to watch a movie called trust and i want you to take some info on it , its about an online preadator that gets this 14 year old girl to meet up with him, if you watch itll open your eyes to do the right thing. just please be careful and if he ever tries to have sex with you try to get up and yell fire. btw i dont think your mom will yell at you cause hes a perv thats making you uncomterble. so just trust me on this.
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Q: only had sex 9 times my boyfriends condom broke on the last day of my period an he cumed in me i was a virgin before him.could i be pregnant?
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even if you have sex on your period you can still get pregnatm i would take a pregancy test and just wait and then maybe even get on the pill if you dont want to have kids right now or your a teen and just dont wanna get pregnat, and just be safe and use condoms (:
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Q: I'm 13 years old and I have very small breasts and all my friends have big breast and I feel uncomfterble also all my other friend have started the period and I haven't so basically all my friends have breasts and started there period and. I haven't I have small breasts and no period please help me. I beg you
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You dont really want your period right now , it SUCKS. and eventually youll grow boobs. you dont your boobs to be too big either. you just gotta wait until its your time. trust me when you get your period you will probally wish you didnt have it, you might be a late bloomer which there is absoulty NOTHING wrong with that.
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Q: how do i get my period faster
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you cant really get your period "faster" , your period usually has a pattern to it if you have had your period for more then 2 years i think . ive had mine for 5 and right now for the past 6 moths ive had my period in the middle of each month, it just usually depends on your body.
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Q: I am 13 years old. I have a friend that is 27 years old. In a month or less I will be moving to California . My friend is supposed to be moving with us. BUT a few days ago he had told me he's good at making out and I should try it with him. And I'm like huh ? And then he told me how he liked me and stuff. But my mom had just asked 3 days before, if Dustin (the friend) was weird or if he made me feel uncomfortable,etc. (basically if he was a pervert). And I'm like no , because I didn't know yet and she's like okay . Because he claims to be gay also BTW. And he has this crappy job with crappy people and lives in a small crappy hotel too. And IDK if I should tell my mom 'cause I would be the reason his life sucks and I don't think I'm in the place to take away dreams just to feel more comfortable. Help me! Should I tell or not?
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i agree with her, you should def tell. for all you know he could take advantage of you and start doing things you DONT wanna do, hes 27 he needs to get a life and stop being a perv , plus with your mom involved it would be alot better, i would just stop talking to him and just live life as a teen (:
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Q: There is a boy I dated and he said it wasn't working out for him.And he said he didn't like me. So we broke up and I still can not get over him because I see him every day so I can not avoid him.
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this just happened to me like 2 moths ago, he was in every one of my classes and he broke up with me cause he liked one of my close friends more then me, but i just looked at him like he was nothing to me at first then we slowly started to become friends but its still hard for me. if i were id try to get another boyfriend. thats what i did and now i dont even care what my ex does and im perfectly happy with my boyfriend now and i know my boyfriend reallly llikes me. so just stay strong and start getting to know other guys(:
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Q: It is sure that after having sex... If we take ipill than there will be no chances of pregnancy...
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well i think if you take it regulary before and just forgot to take it then you might be okay but if you havent been taking it or you just got it then you probally will get pregnat, i heard that birth control does not prevent pregancy right after you have sex, i would wait a couple weeks and do a pregnacy test to be sure and if you arent then you should start taking the pill regularly.
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Q: I really want to have sex with my bf and he's asked me about before I'm 12 should I and just tell him to use a condom or what?
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honestly i would wait . its not worth it , people say it hurts alot and your only 12 your still a child people your age shouldnt even think about sex. and plus its more fun to wait until like college or at least high school. plus with a condom there is still a chance to get pregnat, trust me. but if you really want to then just be safe.
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im ariel, i LOVE giving advice about girl problems. im really easy to talk to and a really good listener, if you need help with anything im ALWAYS here (: , dont be afraid to maybe get something off your chest or ask about something you've been wanting to know (:
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Gender: Female Age: 15 Member Since: June 5, 2012 Answers: 19 Last Update: July 11, 2012 Visitors: 1225
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