Love Advice: He broke up with me, but I still have to see him every day... HELP!
Question Posted Monday June 4 2012, 5:37 pm
There is a boy I dated and he said it wasn't working out for him.And he said he didn't like me. So we broke up and I still can not get over him because I see him every day so I can not avoid him.
Commonly this happens at school/college because obviously education still goes on.
So its a different ball game you've got to play.
You have to accept that you'll see one another alot for now and in the years to come. But you have to keep telling yourself that it wont always be this way.
Write out any negative things about him, and remind yourself of them everytime you feel like you want him back. For a start-he said he didn't like you! So he doesn't sound worth it to me!
Its best to start to PRETEND that your over him. Ignore him, act almost like you guys never dated. Eventually, you will forget about him completeley, as you've trained yourself up to ignore him.
lightoftruth answered Wednesday June 6 2012, 3:19 am: Act like you don't care. Eventually you really won't care. Focus on other things. Start trying to move on, look at other guys. Try to become interested in someone else. You'll get over him, believe me. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
mermaid1919 answered Tuesday June 5 2012, 6:08 pm: this just happened to me like 2 moths ago, he was in every one of my classes and he broke up with me cause he liked one of my close friends more then me, but i just looked at him like he was nothing to me at first then we slowly started to become friends but its still hard for me. if i were id try to get another boyfriend. thats what i did and now i dont even care what my ex does and im perfectly happy with my boyfriend now and i know my boyfriend reallly llikes me. so just stay strong and start getting to know other guys(: [ mermaid1919's advice column | Ask mermaid1919 A Question ]
LaneyKnows answered Monday June 4 2012, 9:29 pm: Just talk to him, you guys should not feel uncomfortable talking to each other! Act like it never happened, like you guys are just friends, and I can assure you that you will be happy! [ LaneyKnows's advice column | Ask LaneyKnows A Question ]
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