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Messaging a guy
I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?
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well start by saying Hey and start a conversation about anything and just stay calm don't say things that might make him feel uncomfortable cause it might not end well. Then when you find the right time to tell him you should go for it. Good luck(:
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Well do you guys live in the same state at least?
If ya'll don't then i dont to know what to say but if yall do then you should tell him in person how you really feel about him when you and him are alone but you shouldn't tell like one of your friends to tell him then hes going to think that you really dont hes going to think that you are playing with him. Hope it all goes right for you! :)
If you need to ask anymore questions just ask me :)
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You can start off with something light, like hey! I was just thinking of you, and see how he replies. Don't start off with the heavy stuff. He might feel really uncomfortable. Good luck :)
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I can see where it would be good to tell you how you feel but at the same time I agree that you should give it time instead of just blurting it out and I certainly wouldn't do it on facebook. The more you get to know him the better you can judge if your feelings are authentic and if he has the same feelings. Guys do often give mixed signals and once you two are spending more time together if you still feel this way then you should speak to him in person about it. Like I told someone else the worse thing that could happen is he could tell you that he doesn't feel the same and at that point you have the opportunity to move on and get over your feelings.
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Alright so here is my view on this one. I don't think you should tell him you like him or pour out all your feelings to him. I think you should start out by becoming his friend, talk a lot, laugh together, and flirt with him. Be really cool with him. You can give flirtatious hints and with that HE will be the one to come on to you. Guys want what they can't have most of the time :).
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Just talk to him like you would to one of your friends. It's ok to flirt a little bit, but keep it comfortable and clean. Just be yourself. You'll do great.
Goood Luck!
~Andrew~
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Hey Hun,
I'm glad you're working the courage up to tell this guy your feelings for him! Kudos to you for that, most people fear telling anyone who they like, let alone telling the person they like that they like them. (If that makes any sense.)
Anyways, I wish I knew how close y'all were. If you're not all that close, then I wouldn't rush into telling the guy that you like him, try to get to actually personally know him. Talk to him, learn about his likes and dislikes, how his life is, and basically all about him. Once you feel like you've learned about him, that would be the time to confess you like/have liked him. Explain that even though y'all have just started talking, you felt a spark or connection between the both of you and you've starte developing feelings for him.
If I'm totally wrong and you've known him for quite some time, then excuse what I just said in the paragraph above and listen to this instead. Confess that you have liked him for quite some time and you really wanted to get that off your chest. If he likes you back, he'll obviously reply that he likes you, if not, then at least you were brave enough to explain how you feel.
Good luck!
-JennHenn
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just say hi and be straight with him. tell him that you like him and maybe you guys could hang out sometimes, talk and get to know each other better.
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you should probally just start out with a friendly conversation , get to know him better then him get to know YOU better then just kinda tell him how you feel, i hope things work out!(:
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