Hey y'all. My name is Jennifer and I'm a 14 year old that lives in Alabama. I don't know if it shows, but I just joined Advicenators recently. I really enjoy giving advice to people and I hope I can help!
I love music, especially the oldies, I love the color red, and well that's all that's needed to know about me. (:
E-mail: Jennifervantassel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Madison, Alabama
Age: 14
Member Since: June 7, 2012
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So that guy I met on the interenet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling like I'm bothering him, and he hasn't replied to me yet. Is it possible that he will miss me,( even if he did lose interest in me) when were talking every single day, and had plans for the future, his friends really liked me and so on? I kinda regret I said that now, but I feel like I've done the right thing. What you guys thing?
Any reason why would he not replay to me :/? (link)
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Hi,
You made a good choice saying you were ending things. The fact that he hasn't replied shows he doesn't even care. He isn't worth your time, but eventually he'll see what he missed out on and will come running back to you. By then, you'll probably be over him. Unless he responds within the week, I'd give up on him.
-JennHenn
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I have had a huge crush on this guy since high school, but we never talked to eachother,he was basically my senior in high school we would see each other but we never said hello... Right Now I am in my 3rd year in the university, his not in my school, and I just got his blackberry contact from a friend and I added him up and he accepted but I don't know how to start a conversation with him, I feel like he may just turn me off, and I have liked him since then this shit won't go away pls what should I do (link)
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Hiya,
I'm assuming y'all have ever talked before, so this could be a little difficult and awkward for you. Why not strike a conversation by simply saying hi. I know it'll seem weird, but you need to start somewhere. Good luck!
-JennHenn
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I'm a girl in high school. My schedule is light and I have all A's in my classes.
I really want to learn kung fu but my mom is completely against it; she hates Chinese culture. I happen to have some Chinese friends and am taking Chinese because it's the only language that fits in my schedule, but my mom thinks I will be too influenced by "unsophisticated" Chinese culture and kung fu is the tipping point.
For certain reasons, kung fu is the only martial art I can safely learn. My mom knows this and tells me to do something like track instead, but I love martial arts. My dad is ok with kung fu but he's scared of my mom. I could maybe learn it secretly by begging my dad to drive me but I would rather not do that. Do you have any suggestions on how I might approach my mom again on this subject? She can be very unreasonable sometimes.
Thank you!! (link)
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Hey girlie,
Try convincing your mom that you're not learning Kung Fu to learn more about the Chinese culture, but you mainly want to learn how to fight, but in a safe way. Explain to her you could care less about the background of Kung Fu. Even if you do care about it, and you do care about the Chinese culture, just lie. I wouldn't have your dad sneak you to practice either, going behind her back isn't the smartest thing to do. All in all, keep convincing her learning Kung Fu is for your safety, not to learn the Chinese culture. Besides, just because Kung Fu is Chinese, it doesn't necessarily mean it's part of their culture. Good luck!!
-JennHenn
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hi im a 16 year old girl, how do i become flexible? i can barely do anything that is flexible and i want to change that! any suggestions? i dont want something really really hard to do or something that hurts haha! thanks! :) (link)
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Hey girlie,
Well you're going to have to do tons of stretches like, the butterfly, lunges, etc. I know you don't want to do anything that hurts, but you're going to have to. After you've finished stretching, try to do the splits and see if you're able to go any further. If you are, then great!! But if you stay the same then you need to try going down a bit further, despite the fact that it hurts. It'll take awhile before you can fully do the splits, but in a matter of time you'll be able to do it. Just stretch and force yourself to go down further each day.
-JennHenn
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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas? (link)
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Hey Hun,
I'm glad you're working the courage up to tell this guy your feelings for him! Kudos to you for that, most people fear telling anyone who they like, let alone telling the person they like that they like them. (If that makes any sense.)
Anyways, I wish I knew how close y'all were. If you're not all that close, then I wouldn't rush into telling the guy that you like him, try to get to actually personally know him. Talk to him, learn about his likes and dislikes, how his life is, and basically all about him. Once you feel like you've learned about him, that would be the time to confess you like/have liked him. Explain that even though y'all have just started talking, you felt a spark or connection between the both of you and you've starte developing feelings for him.
If I'm totally wrong and you've known him for quite some time, then excuse what I just said in the paragraph above and listen to this instead. Confess that you have liked him for quite some time and you really wanted to get that off your chest. If he likes you back, he'll obviously reply that he likes you, if not, then at least you were brave enough to explain how you feel.
Good luck!
-JennHenn
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So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not? (link)
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Personally, I think he's just as shy as you. He wants to steal glances at you because he's curious about you and he's contemplating on talking to you more and what not. Instead of him making the first move, why don't you? He's doing his part by hanging around places you normally hang around, try to step it up a bit.
Good luck Hun!
-JennHenn
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14/f
i have been cutting myself since my mom would not let me see my dad(alittle over 2 years).
i have not told anyone,but am considering telling my bf. we have been going out for 5 months and i knoow he will go beserck saying *why havent you told me before*.
i know he will say this cause he is very protective over me.
please help i dont know what to do, lately i have been useing a very dull and small knife,all it does is leave a red mark on me for about 4 hours.
and i want to use a sharp knife, i have willed myself to stay away from sharp knives so i dont get the temtation.
please? any advise is very thankful!! (link)
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Hi Hun,
I know you've probably heard/seen this before, but cutting should never be the answer. It obviously isn't since you're still pretty upset over the tough situation you're in. If you honestly trust your boyfriend enough to tell him something so personal to you, that he wouldn't tell a soul, then yes, go for it and tell him. Even if he freaks out, it just shows how much he cares about you, so don't stress about that too much, see it as a good sign.
I'm sorry that your mom hasn't let you see your dad for the past two years. Have you actually had a serious, grown up talk with her concerning how not being able to see your dad affects you? You deserve a father in your life. If he has done something drastic and awful, then she should let you know about it. Try talking to her and asking the real reason as to why you cannot see him. Then explain to her you've been inflicting damage upon yourself as a result of not being able to see him, IF she still doesn't allow you to after having a serious talk.
Please girlie, stop cutting yourself. It obviously hasn't gotten you anywhere, you're still obviously strongly affected in a bad way from this. Find something else to do that doesn't involve inflicting damage on yourself. You could go out for a walk when you start feeling tempted to harm yourself in any way, or even get up and do a little stretching. Just please, don't hurt yourself ever.
I hope things change for you, and I hope I helped. Best wishes to you.
-JennHenn
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so this guy i like was sitting in the bleachers when they starts flipping out and trying so hard 2 embarrass me at least 7 of my friend gave tried to get him to date me and every time he said eww no. heres the confusing parti missed school sometime last week and my friend maddie told me he was looking for me in the bleachers what else ive observed us that he glances at me a couple times. i dont kno if his feelings are chaging or what. another thing he does is me n like 5 people at lunch we'll say hi and he ignores us so inseriously dont understand him what so ever. Anyone have ideas for what i should do? i speak english and im in 7th grade plz help theres only 2 day of school left and i wont c him untik next year! (link)
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The previous answer, someone said they don't think he likes you, but honestly I think he could. Some boys are just bad at showing they like a girl, so they're rude and such. Also the fact that he's looking for you and he notices you're gone is another hint. You have to remember that you're in 7th grade so he wouldn't be able to show that he likes you appropriately and maturely like a grown man should.
Anyways, how I see it, he either does like you, or he truly hates you. Would there be any reason at all as to why he'd hate you? If not, then he likes you. (:
-JennHenn
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