Im 16 and I've been going out with my bf for over a month and I really like him and he really likes me but the only problem is he likes to have sex and I don't. He wants me to sneak out with him a lot to do it and I don't want to. A couple of days ago this guy told me he wanted to date me and he is sweet and would never push me to do things like my bf does now. But the problem with him is we are so different. He's more of the preppy kind of guy and I'm more of the laid back person. I know if I leave my bf now I'll miss him like crazy because he's perfect except for the fact he pushes me to do bad things. The new guy is a good boy but idk if I should dump my bf for him or not?
Ok let me say the part that I hated hearing when I was your age first. "You are 16 and you will most likely have a lot of different guys in your life before you meet your prince charming." I have to tell you that this is actually true.
The most important advice anyone can give you now is that you should never let anyone especially the man in your life push you into doing anything. If you are afraid you will lose him if you don't have sex when he wants it then that should tell you something. The other guy may surprise you and you should never close a door on taking the chance to do something that could make you happy.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you aren't comfortable having sex all the time and that you would like to learn and experience other things with him as well. Again if he doesn't understand that then he doesn't deserve you. Jumping from one relationship to another is part of being a teen and if you and your bf (after you talk to him) break up then give the new guy a chance. Remember you just don't want to get in the same situation all over again.
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Okay so I'd say I'm pretty familiar with my own vagina. The thing is though. I was exploring up there today and i noticed a hard ball. I mean I know girls have that but this time it feels extremely different, almost as thoigh its bigger and I feel it every time during insertion of my fingers now. And if I put my fingers on the other side of it, it leads to another hole.. but it seems much more prominent.. like its standing out more than usual. I'm pretty freaked out right now. Is this normal? I've never noticed it like this before...
I would agree that it is time for a checkup. It could be anything as simple as some sort of infection and the doctor can give you antibiotics for it to a small cyst. Don't freak out over it though just go and get your annual and ask your doctor.
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im 12 a femal and i dont have my period. every day when i go to the bath room i see clear goo on my underwear that must have come from my vagina. some times i find it dry and see it turns a tiny bit yellow. im scared what is this stuff. does it mean im going to get my period?
It is normal and is often a sign that you are about to start your period. You don't have to worry about anything unless you are sexually active. It can even be a yeast infection and women can get them from wearing tight jeans and other little simple things. Even antibiotics can cause this. I would give it a little time and unless you develop other symptoms such as itching and/or burning I wouldn't worry.
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Hi everyone, im a 21 year old year old female who is suffering from symptoms that are really bothering me.. It started about a month ago where out of no where i felt like i couldnt breathe properly and it just got worse since then.. My symptoms are: tightness in neck and throat, fast heart beats even when lying down in bed, breathing difficulties, sweaty palms, sore throat when i breathe in, sometimes i get chest pains, tired most of the time, stomach pain, nausea, diarhhea, panic, loss of appetite, feeling sad/ scared.. I've been to the doctor and had an ecg done it came out fine, checked out my stomach and the doctor said the pain could be from not eating right.. My mom suffered from anxiety, so i dont know if i could be suffering from the same thing.. I dont want to do anything anymore and i hate what is happening to me it's bringing me down a lot.. Please help
All of your symptoms could be from anxiety and with anxiety comes panic attacks. Panic attacks can effect people in many different ways and two of the main effects are actually chest pain and shortness of breathe. I would also suggest speaking to your doctor about getting an antidepressant, there are certain ones that will help prevent anxiety attacks and a lot more. Often enough we need antidepressants to handle chemical imbalances and just remember that none of it is your fault it just seems to be a natural problem that people have.
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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?
I can see where it would be good to tell you how you feel but at the same time I agree that you should give it time instead of just blurting it out and I certainly wouldn't do it on facebook. The more you get to know him the better you can judge if your feelings are authentic and if he has the same feelings. Guys do often give mixed signals and once you two are spending more time together if you still feel this way then you should speak to him in person about it. Like I told someone else the worse thing that could happen is he could tell you that he doesn't feel the same and at that point you have the opportunity to move on and get over your feelings.
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So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not?
It sounds like he is shy about his feelings. I have to agree that you should talk to him about it. The worse thing he can say is no he doesn't like you that way and even then you have an answer a chance to move on.
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but see, if I show cincern or ask her about it she slaps me or cusses me out.
It sounds to me as if you are definitely between a rock and a hard place. If you are telling her you are concerned about her and your father and she slaps you or curses you out. You are left with two choices. First one and the one I personally feel you shouldn't do is to speak to your father about it. It could be that he knows and is trying to handle it himself. The second which is actually the one you most likely will need to go with is to simply try to let them handle it and try to stay out of it. It is totally different if she is telling you anything about it. If she is then you simply need to tell her you don't want to know anything else about it. If it comes up again the only thing you can tell her is that you are concerned about her and your father and don't want to lose either of them. I wish you luck with this and wish I could give you more but as I said it sounds like your hands are tied.
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I'm 13 years old and I have very small breasts and all my friends have big breast and I feel uncomfterble also all my other friend have started the period and I haven't so basically all my friends have breasts and started there period and. I haven't I have small breasts and no period please help me. I beg you
I understand completely how you feel as I was in the same situation when I was your age. Starting your period signifies becoming a woman to alot of young girls. The good thing about not started so soon is you are actually less likely to develop any type of female problems, like cancer.
When it comes to breast size the same thing is true there as well. Women who have really large breast have many health problems with age. You will develop and to be completely honest with you, you will find that you will remain perkier when you are older than those of your friends who developed faster.
Another little side note, I remember how much I couldn't wait to grow up but now I would say take your time. Age goes up and not down and before you know it you will be twenty-one and then one day forty. Take your time and enjoy your life.
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I think my mom is cheating on my dad with an old high-school friend on facebook. She inboxes him hearts and smileyfaces, she has private chats in her bedroom with him and she never talks to my dad anymore. I know my dad still loves her, but I dont think she feels the same with him....
Often people get online and do this with old flames as a means of living a double life. I mean they don't actually ever intend to meet with their old flame in person but this gives them a fantasy experience. My mother talks to one of her ex fiances and I know she has asked herself what would have happened if they had stayed together and she married him instead of my dad. I also know that my mother does love my father and would never cheat on him in real life.
You just have to remember the internet provides people with fantasy worlds and people will do things online they never would do in person.
I also want to suggest that if it bothers you that much you should talk to your mother about it. I believe talking to her about it will actually clear the air and make you feel much better.
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